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b-Vibe Snug Plug 1 leads our butt plugs for couples ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.

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The verdict

b-Vibe Snug Plug 1 takes the top spot. It's weighted, so it sits snug and heavy and you feel it every time you move.

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    b-Vibe Snug Plug 1

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    b-Vibe Novice Plug

    $110 to $123.95

    Shop $110 at SheVibe

    ships free

  3. Budget pickNo. 7 ↓

    Tantus Silk Small

At a glance

Compare the top 8

  1. 1b-Vibe Snug Plug 1b-Vibe Snug Plug 1$45Too new to rate$45 →
  2. 2b-Vibe Novice Plugb-Vibe Novice Plug$110 to $123.95Too new to rate$110 →
  3. 3b-Vibe Snug Plug 2b-Vibe Snug Plug 2$48Too new to rate$48 →
  4. 4njoy Pure Plugnjoy Pure Plug$85Too new to rate$85 →
  5. 5Mood Naughty 1 TrainerMood Naughty 1 Trainer$35.99Too new to rate$35.99 →
  6. 6Tantus RyderTantus Ryder$32Too new to rate$32 →
  7. 7Tantus Silk SmallTantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 →
  8. 8Sliquid SassySliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 →

The ranking

The full ranking

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · b-VibePhoto at the top ↑

b-Vibe Snug Plug 1

Too new to rate$45

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Snug Plug 1. Small.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Small. You may outgrow it in a month
  • Still a plug. Lube. Flared base. Don't skip either

Why it ranks: Plug search that wants Snug 1.

b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 by b-Vibe.
b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 by b-Vibe.
No. 3

No. 3 · b-Vibe

b-Vibe Snug Plug 2

Too new to rate$48

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Snug 2.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Weight is the product. If you wanted a motor, that's Ditto+ or Plug-ilicious
  • Start at 1 if 2 looks like a dare

Why it ranks: Plug-plus-Snug2.

Official njoy Pure Plug product photo. Stainless plug family on a wide studio background.
Official njoy Pure Plug product photo. Stainless plug family on a wide studio background.
No. 4

No. 4 · njoy

njoy Pure Plug

Too new to rate$85

Pure Plug. Steel.

Pros

  • Body-safe stainless steel
  • Flared base

Cons

  • Hard. Lube. Slow
  • If the neck is too thin for you, it will not stay. That's a size problem, not a night problem

Why it ranks: Plug-plus-Pure.

Mood Naughty 1 three-piece silicone butt plug trainer set.
Mood Naughty 1 three-piece silicone butt plug trainer set.
No. 5

No. 5 · Doc Johnson

Mood Naughty 1 Trainer

Too new to rate$35.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Three soft silicone trainers. Graduated. The other under-forty set if you wanted Doc Johnson packaging and a gentler first feel than Stout.

Pros

  • Flared bases

Cons

  • Soft means less 'there' than a weighted plug
  • Keep the flare outside. Always

Why it ranks: Who it's for: soft silicone, three sizes, no buzz.

Tantus Ryder by Tantus.
Tantus Ryder by Tantus.
No. 6

No. 6 · Tantus

Tantus Ryder

Too new to rate$32

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Ryder.

Pros

  • Platinum-cure silicone
  • Flared base

Cons

  • Firmer than b-Vibe. That's the silicone, not a defect
  • Water-based lube

Why it ranks: Plug-plus-Ryder.

Official Tantus Silk Small. Slim lavender and black silicone insertables with flared bases on white.
Official Tantus Silk Small. Slim lavender and black silicone insertables with flared bases on white.
No. 7

No. 7 · Tantus

Tantus Silk Small

Too new to rate$31.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Silk Small if plug was the wrong word.

Pros

  • Platinum-cure silicone
  • Flared base

Cons

  • Water-based lube only on silicone
  • Flared base matters if you take it anal — this size can, if you want that

Why it ranks: Plug leak into Silk.

Sliquid Sassy by Sliquid.
Sliquid Sassy by Sliquid.
No. 8

No. 8 · Sliquid

Sliquid Sassy

Too new to rate$13.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Thicker water-based.

Cons

  • Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
  • Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long

Why it ranks: Thicker nights buy Sassy.

Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 2 oz.
Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 2 oz.
No. 9

No. 9 · Sliquid

Sliquid Shine 2 oz

from 17 reviews$7.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Travel Shine.

Cons

  • Same oil warning as the big bottle
  • You will refill it if you actually use it

Why it ranks: Rinse hop.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 10

No. 10 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

The bottle. Dry nights stall.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: Cart wants H2O.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

b-Vibe Novice Plug earns its spot too. And b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 if you want another option.

Let them be the one to put it in. Slow, lubed, eyes on you. Very good foreplay.

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Before you buy

Buying guide

Why this one's on top

b-Vibe Snug Plug 1. The taper makes going in easy, and once it settles there's this warm, full pressure that makes everything else feel bigger. With a partner, wear it through dinner, or during sex. Everything feels tighter and fuller for both of you.

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FAQ

Common questions

What's the best pick for butt plugs for couples?
b-Vibe Snug Plug 1. Smooth silicone, a gentle flare and a fullness that builds the longer you leave it in. Not feeling it? Go for b-Vibe Novice Plug.
What if I've never used one?
Lube the toy and yourself, breathe out as it goes in, and go slow. Thick water-based lube is your best friend.
Thin walls?
Plugs without a motor are silent. The vibrating ones get muffled by, well, you.

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