Together
Best sex toys for couples
Toys you use on each other, not next to each other. Fifteen we'd happily bring to bed tonight.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Our winner
We-Vibe Nova 2
- Long-distance nights work too: the remote lives in an app on a phone.
- One motor fills you while the bendy arm keeps humming on your clit as you move.
- 255 owners on we-vibe.com give it 4.5 out of 5.
No. 1 on the ranking · Read the review
The verdict
Get the We-Vibe Nova 2. Hand it over, or hand over the app, and let them play you: the shaft fills you while the clit arm rolls with your hips. Owners give it 4.5/5 from 255 reviews.
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
We-Vibe Nova 2
Why it's here: Hand them the app.
$127.20 to $159Two motors, and they can drive it from the app
$159 at SheVibe · ships freeBest clit toyNo. 2 ↓
Womanizer Premium 2
Why it's here: Air pulse during sex.
$151.20 to $189Air pulse that works mid-sex, no grinding needed
$179 at SheVibe · ships freeBest for strap-on playNo. 3 ↓
SpareParts Joque Cover
Soft jockstrap cut with a pocket for a bullet
$148 at Pleasure Chest · ships freeBest ring for twoNo. 4 ↓
We-Vibe Pivot 2
You both feel it on every thrust
$129 at SheVibe · ships freeBest small vibeNo. 7 ↓
We-Vibe Tango X
$72 to $85
$85 at SheVibe · ships freeBudget pickNo. 11 ↓
Fleshlight Quickshot
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
We-Vibe Nova 2Best overall$127.20 to $159from 255 reviews$159 → - 2
Womanizer Premium 2Best clit toy$151.20 to $189from 1027 reviews$179 → - 3
SpareParts Joque CoverBest for strap-on play$148from 11 reviews$148 → - 4
We-Vibe Pivot 2Best ring for two$129from 10 reviews$129 → - 5
We-Vibe Sync 2Best wearable$169 to $179from 306 reviews$169 → - 6
Magic Wand RechargeableBest to pass around$149.99 to $160.95from 17 reviews$149.99 → - 7
We-Vibe Tango XBest small vibe$72 to $85from 324 reviews$85 → - 8
We-Vibe Touch XBest first toy$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
The ranking
The fifteen, ranked
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · We-Vibe
Best overall
We-Vibe Nova 2
A rabbit whose bendy arm stays on your clit while the shaft works inside. Give them the app and let them drive, from across the bed or across the country.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Not for wearing during intercourse
- The app is optional and half the fun
Why it ranks: The easiest toy on this list to put in someone else's hands, backed by a big, happy crowd of owners. Two motors, one inside and one on your clit, so you both get to watch it work.
Two motors, and they can drive it from the app
No. 2 · Womanizer
Best clit toy
Womanizer Premium 2
Air-pulse on your clit while they're inside you or kissing their way down. It sucks and flutters without touching you, and it's quiet enough for thin walls.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone heads
- Silicone and ABS body
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Needs room to hold the seal. Easier on top than in missionary
- Not hands-free
Why it ranks: More owners have reviewed it than anything else on this list, and they stay happy. Air pulse needs no contact, so it slips between two bodies during sex and stays hushed until it meets skin.
Air pulse that works mid-sex, no grinding needed
No. 3 · SpareParts
Best for strap-on play
SpareParts Joque Cover
The harness people buy after the cheap one digs in. Soft jockstrap cut, snug O-ring, and a pocket for a bullet for the wearer's own buzz.
Cons
- Dildo sold separately
- Size by hip measurement, not jeans size
Why it ranks: The top owner score on the list, though it rests on just eleven reviews, and it's a harness, so it suits couples who play with a strap. People write about wearing it for an hour and forgetting it was on.
Soft jockstrap cut with a pocket for a bullet
Ships discreetly from Pleasure Chest
No. 4 · We-Vibe
Best ring for two
We-Vibe Pivot 2
A soft, stretchy ring at the base with a motor bump you turn toward your clit. Every time your hips meet, it buzzes right there. They stay harder, you come sooner.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Twenty to thirty minutes on, then off
- Lube the inside of the band first
Why it ranks: Rolls on in seconds, keeps them harder, and grinds a buzzing bump into your clit. It sits mid-list because We-Vibe shows only ten owner reviews so far, and six of those came from free units.
You both feel it on every thrust
No. 5 · We-Vibe
Best wearable
We-Vibe Sync 2
Chorus for bodies Chorus doesn't fit. Both arms bend, so you shape it snug against you, then hand over the remote and see how long you can hold out.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable remote
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Button remote, no squeeze
- Still a wearable. Some couples would rather hold a toy
Why it ranks: The wearable we'd pick now. Both arms bend, so it shapes itself to bodies the Chorus slips on, and over three hundred owners rate it a notch above Chorus.
No. 6 · Vibratex / Magic Wand
Best to pass around
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Deep, thudding rumble you pass back and forth. Hold it on your clit while they take you from behind, or run it up their shaft and watch their face.
Pros
- Silicone head and flexible neck
- Rechargeable, or plug it into the wall
Cons
- Big and a little loud. Not a travel toy
- Too much for some. A sheet between you and the head softens it
Why it ranks: A rumble no palm vibe can match, and the cordless version finally lets it roam the bed. Owners love it. It sits below the toys built for two only because it's big and a little loud.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 7 · We-Vibe
Best small vibe
We-Vibe Tango X
Lipstick-size and way stronger than it looks. Hold it on your clit during sex, drop it in the Joque's pocket, or drag it over nipples and balls.
Pros
- Silicone grip
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Pinpoint buzz, not a broad rumble
- Easy to bump the buttons mid-thrust
Why it ranks: Big demand, real power for its size, and under $100. People buy it for solo nights and end up bringing it to bed, because it fits between two bodies.
No. 8 · We-Vibe
Best first toy
We-Vibe Touch X
Soft, palm-size, with a flat side and a tip. Pass it back and forth: on your clit during foreplay, on their perineum, on your nipples. The easiest yes for a first toy.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Less power than a wand
- Held, not worn
Why it ranks: The easiest first toy to share: soft, simple, and well liked by nearly two hundred owners. There's no learning curve at all.
No. 9 · Vixen Creations
Vixen Mustang
Soft VixSkin that gives like real skin over a firm core. It's the dildo people put in the Joque. Run it under warm water first and it feels even closer to the real thing.
Pros
- VixSkin dual-density silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- About 1.6 inches wide. New to pegging? Start slimmer
- Water-based lube, mild soap
Why it ranks: The dildo harness buyers pair with the Joque most, and its flared base sits flat in the O-ring. Not cheap, and reviews say it lasts for years.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 10 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Chorus
Goes in before they do. One end hums on your G-spot, the other on your clit, and they feel it through you on every stroke. Squeeze the remote to turn it up.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Squeeze remote
- IPX7 toy. Remote is splashproof.
Cons
- Fit decides it. If it slips on your body, Sync 2 bends to fit
- Water-based lube. Silicone lube leaves silicone tacky
Why it ranks: Still the only toy here worn during sex on both spots, with a squeeze remote your partner can hold. Fit splits its owners, which is why it sits below the Sync 2: when it stays put it's wonderful, and when it doesn't, Sync 2 bends to fit.
Wear it during sex, squeeze the remote
More ranked picks
No. 11 · Fleshlight
Fleshlight Quickshot
Short and open at both ends. Slide it down the shaft while your mouth stays on the tip, or add lube for a handjob that feels like a lot more than your hand.
from 103 reviews
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 12 · ROMP
ROMP Juke
A buzzing cock ring for under $40. Stretchy silicone, a little motor that finds your clit when you grind down, and waterproof, so it can come in the shower too.
Too new to rate
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 13 · VeDO
VeDO YUMI
Sits between two fingers so every touch hums. Their hands stay free, and it tucks between you during sex without any angle homework.
from 19 reviews
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 14 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Moxie+
A magnet holds it in your underwear, right on your clit. Wear it to dinner with the remote in their pocket, or let them tease you from their phone in another city.
from 201 reviews
No. 15 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Sync Lite
The cheapest way to find out if you both love a vibe worn during sex. Slimmer arm, gentler buzz, and your phone does the remote's job.
from 136 reviews
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
The best couples toys are the ones you use on each other, with both of you there and both of you into it. Not the thing one person uses while the other one waits. These fifteen are ranked on how well they work between two bodies, what their owners really think of them, and how many owners there are, and every one is still sold in the US.
Nova 2 is on top because it's the toy you give away for the night. They hold it, or they take over the app from the next pillow or the next time zone, and you get to stop steering. Let them choose the pattern. Don't tell them how close you are.
Premium 2 is the one to bring into sex itself. It pulses air instead of buzzing, so you can tuck it between you while they're inside you. If your nights involve a strap, the Joque with a VixSkin Mustang is the setup people rave about: a soft jockstrap cut, a pocket for a Tango X so the wearer gets a buzz too, and a dildo that's squishy outside and firm underneath.
Want something you wear while they're inside you? Sync 2 bends at both ends until it sits snug. Chorus, the squeeze-remote original, sits a few places lower because fit splits its owners. Pivot 2 is the shortcut if there's a penis in the bed, and it grinds right into your clit when you're on top.
Then there's the stuff you pass around. The Magic Wand thuds instead of buzzing and will finish almost anyone, pressed on a clit or run slowly up a shaft. Touch X is the soft, easy yes for a first toy together. Quickshot is open at both ends, so your mouth can stay on the tip while the sleeve does the rest.
Narrowing it down? Shared vibrating cock rings are the easiest yes for penetrative sex, air-pulse stimulators for couples bring the suction into bed with you, and dual stim vibrators for couples let them take the controls. Feeling braver this month? Beginner kink toys for Kinktober is the gentle way in, and our aftercare kit keeps the after part tender. Shopping on a budget? Couples vibrators under $100 and Lovense alternatives are both easy wins. For couples who play beyond the script, sex toys for queer couples has a pick for every pairing, and remote control panty vibrators take the tease out of the house. Living apart? Sex toys for long distance couples put your partner's thumb on the controls from anywhere, and our couples gift picks make the next visit special. Feeling adventurous? Toys for threesomes keep every body included. Settling in for winter? Cuffing season toys are built for cold nights, and New Year's Eve toys make the countdown more fun. Want something small to share? See the best small vibrators for couples. Need clit focus during sex? Read the best clit toys for during sex.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Your first toy together
Touch X or Pivot 2. Touch X is a soft palm vibe you pass back and forth during foreplay, and nobody has to learn a thing. Pivot 2 goes on and does its work during sex. Grab a bottle of water-based lube while you're at it.
Long distance
Nova 2 or Moxie+ on your end, their phone on the other. The We-Vibe app lets them change the pattern from another city while you're in bed with the door locked. Sync 2 and Chorus run on the same app for when you're finally in one room.
For her
Chorus if you want it inside you during sex. Premium 2 if your clit likes suction more than buzz. Tango X lives in the nightstand for everything else.
For him
Pivot 2 if he wants to last and you want the buzz on your clit. Quickshot if you want to make him lose it with your mouth and a sleeve. Juke if you'd rather spend under $40 on the ring.
For them, and whoever wears the strap
Joque plus Mustang is the pairing to save for. New to pegging? Get the Joque now, start with something slimmer than Mustang, and size up when you're both greedy for more.
On a budget
Juke and Quickshot both land under $40, and YUMI is under $50. Sync Lite lets you test-drive a wearable before you spend Chorus money.
No. 1 · We-Vibe Nova 2
$127.20 to $159
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FAQ
Common questions
- What is the best sex toy for couples?
- The We-Vibe Nova 2 for most couples. It averages 4.5/5 across 255 owner reviews, and it's built to be handed over: your partner holds it or runs it from the app while the arm stays on your clit. Want it during sex? Womanizer Premium 2 tucks between you, and Sync 2 is the one you wear.
- What should we get as our first toy together?
- Touch X or Pivot 2. Both are soft, simple and easy to love the first night. Save the harness and the app toys for once you know what you both like.
- Which couples toys work long distance?
- Anything on the We-Vibe app: Nova 2, Moxie+, Sync 2, Chorus and Sync Lite. Your partner runs it from their phone anywhere with a signal.
- What lube works with these toys?
- Water-based on anything silicone, which is nearly everything here. Silicone lube can leave silicone toys tacky. Quickshot and Mustang want water-based too.
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Best long-distance sex toysA phone in another city. An egg, a magnet, or a C you already trust.
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