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Best long-distance sex toys
A phone in another city. An egg, a magnet, or a C you already trust.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
Our pick, every time: We-Vibe Chorus. It sits inside and on your clit while your partner slides in beside it. Squeeze the remote and the vibe answers.
Quick picks
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
We-Vibe Chorus$209 to $219from 237 reviews$219 → - 2
We-Vibe Sync 2$169 to $179from 306 reviews$179 → - 3
b-Vibe Novice Plug$110 to $123.95Too new to rate$110 → - 4
We-Vibe Pivot 2$129from 10 reviews$129 → - 5
We-Vibe Jive 2$111.20 to $139Too new to rate$139 → - 6
Magic Wand Plus$104.99 to $111.50Too new to rate$104.99 → - 7
We-Vibe Verge 2$139Too new to rate$139 → - 8
We-Vibe Moxie+$139 to $149from 201 reviews$139 →
The ranking
The full ranking
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · We-VibePhoto at the top ↑
We-Vibe Chorus
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
C-shape. App if someone is in the other room. Squeeze remote if they are in the bed. Long-distance only if you already talked about a phone.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Fit is the product. Wrong bodies spit it out
- App needs two phones that behave. The remote does not
Why it ranks: Long-distance couples still type Chorus. Reviews mention pairing and slipping. Official stock wobbles.
No. 2 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Sync 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Adjustable C. App and a puck. Distance play if a C-shape already fits you. The remote is for the same room.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- App and remote
Cons
- If Chorus already fits, this is a sibling
- App dropouts happen. Keep the remote in reach
Why it ranks: Sync is the other wearable people take on a trip. Reviews compare the arms, then the app.
No. 3 · b-Vibe
b-Vibe Novice Plug
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Small vibrating first plug. Soft silicone. The name is the pitch. For people who want a motor on night one and a size that does not pick a fight.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
Cons
- Beginner size. The motor will not save a bad angle
- If you wanted weight and no buzz, that's Snug 1
Why it ranks: A small first plug with a remote-controlled motor.
No. 4 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Pivot 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
The current Pivot. Softer band than the first one. Motor sits in a bump you can aim at a clitoris or the underside of a penis. For a penis or a toy, not for cinching anyone into numbness.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- It's a vibe on a band. Not a tight cock ring
- Lube it. Dry silicone grabs
Why it ranks: Rings get bought, then returned, then reviewed. Pivot 2 is the one We-Vibe is selling now. Notes talk about stretch, where the buzz lands, and whether it lasted twenty minutes.
No. 5 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Jive 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Egg you wear. Partner runs the app from another city. Hands-free if the flare stays. This is the long-distance shape people mean.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- App control
Cons
- It has to stay. Wrong bodies push it out
- Phone dies, toy sits there. That's the deal
Why it ranks: Distance-egg search names Jive. We-Vibe still sells 2.
No. 6 · Vibratex / Magic Wand
Magic Wand Plus
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Corded HV-265. Four speeds instead of the Original's two. Same family shape. Still a wall plug. Still loud.
Cons
- Still corded. Still not waterproof
- If you wanted cordless, that is the Rechargeable
Why it ranks: Reviews treat it as the middle sibling.
No. 7 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Verge 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Current Verge. Ring plus a perineum arm. For a penis and the person attached to it, with leftover buzz for a partner if you aim it. Softer silicone than the first Verge.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- That extra arm divides people
- Not a clitoral-first ring. That's Pivot 2
Why it ranks: New enough that long notes are still landing.
No. 8 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Moxie+
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Magnet in underwear. Phone in someone else's hand. Long-distance if you trust the clip and a pair of pants.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Panty thickness matters. Thick fabric kills it
- App is the remote. No squeeze puck in the box
Why it ranks: Panty-plus-distance search is loud. Reviews mention magnets letting go and the app dropping.
No. 9 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Wand 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Full wand. App if someone else runs it. You still hold the handle. Distance is the phone, not hands-free.
Pros
- Silicone head
- Rechargeable handle
- App optional
Cons
- You can ignore the app. Many people do
- Less brute force than a Magic Wand
Why it ranks: Long-distance wand search exists. Category fit is a held toy with a remote.
No. 10 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Sync Lite
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
App exists. Milder wearable. A first long-distance toy only if you already used it in the same room.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- App optional
Cons
- Milder motor. That's the point, and the limit
- Fit still matters. Slim is not invisible
Why it ranks: People try Lite at home, then ask about the app. Distance fit is weaker than Jive or Moxie.
More ranked picks
No. 11 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Vector+
Adjustable prostate arm. App. Remote. Long-distance if that anatomy is the job and you already talked.
Too new to rate
No. 12 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Rave 2
Internal curve. App optional. Long-distance if you want a G-spot vibe someone else can run. You still aim it.
from 137 reviews
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Want something a little different? We-Vibe Sync 2. A C-shaped couples vibe you can adjust to your body. Both of you get the buzz. And b-Vibe Novice Plug if you want another option. The app lets them play from anywhere, which makes a work trip a lot more interesting.
Let whoever isn't wearing it run the controls. Then swap. Keep score if you're competitive.
Choosing a brand for nights apart? See We-Vibe vs Lovense. Also choosing a We-Vibe wearable for nights together? Read is the We-Vibe Sync 2 worth it? Want one toy for date nights out and nights apart? See is the We-Vibe Moxie+ worth it? Choosing between We-Vibe and Lovense for nights apart? Read Moxie+ vs Lush 4. Building a Lovense set for nights apart? See the best Lovense toys.
Before you buy
Buying guide
What they are wearing
Egg, magnet, C-shape, plug, ring. The app does not fix a bad mount. Try the shape in the same room first.
Same room first
Pairing, accounts, firmware. A first shared night should not be a support ticket. Best beginner couples toys if you have not done this yet.
FAQ
Common questions
- What is the best long-distance sex toy?
- Jive 2 if you want an egg someone else can run. Moxie+ if underwear is the mount. Chorus or Sync 2 if a C-shape already fits and the phone is extra. Ditto+ if a small plug is the job.
- Do we need an app for long-distance play?
- Yes if you are not in the same room. A puck only reaches the mattress. Best remote control vibrators is the same-room sibling.
- Is a long-distance toy a good first couples toy?
- No. Use it in the same room first. Best beginner couples toys is the kinder start. Pairing Bluetooth across time zones is a fight.
- Long-distance toy or app-controlled toy?
- This list prefers toys people actually use from another city. Best app-controlled sex toys is the wider phone shelf.
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