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Liberator Jaz leads our use a sex pillow ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.

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The verdict

Start with a wedge under the hips for missionary. It's the easiest upgrade in the whole bedroom. Alone, prop your hips, add your favorite toy and let gravity help.

Our No. 1: Liberator Jaz

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Liberator Jaz

    Shop $99 at SheVibe

    ships free

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    Liberator Wedge

    $108 to $110

    Shop $108 at SheVibe

    ships free

  3. Budget pickNo. 5 ↓

    We-Vibe Touch X

    $87.20 to $109

    Shop $109 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

At a glance

Compare the top 7

  1. 1Liberator JazLiberator Jaz$99Too new to rate$99 →
  2. 2Liberator WedgeLiberator Wedge$108 to $110Too new to rate$108 →
  3. 3Liberator Heart WedgeLiberator Heart Wedge$105Too new to rate$105 →
  4. 4Liberator RampLiberator Ramp$199Too new to rate$199 →
  5. 5We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
  6. 6Sliquid H2OSliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 →
  7. 7Sliquid Shine 8.5 ozSliquid Shine 8.5 oz$15.99Too new to rate$15.99 →

The ranking

The full ranking

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · LiberatorPhoto at the top ↑

Liberator Jaz

Too new to rate$99
Shop $99 at SheVibeships free

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

A named roll. Cover on. Under a knee or a hip. Not a bed pillow.

Cons

  • If you want the rock, that is Jaz Motion
  • Small. Say so before you expect Ramp height

Why it ranks: How-to-use-a-sex-pillow starts on Jaz, not a stack from the closet.

Official Liberator Wedge. Firm angled foam sex pillow in gray microvelvet.
Official Liberator Wedge. Firm angled foam sex pillow in gray microvelvet.
No. 2

No. 2 · Liberator

Liberator Wedge

Too new to rate$108 to $110
Shop $108 at SheVibelower price · ships freeShop $110 at Pleasure Chestships free

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Firm triangle. Hips up. The pillow if Jaz already felt like a leftover cushion.

Cons

  • It is a wedge. It takes closet space
  • Cheap copies flatten. This one is still foam you notice

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Wedge.

Liberator Heart Wedge by Liberator.
Liberator Heart Wedge by Liberator.
No. 3

No. 3 · Liberator

Liberator Heart Wedge

Too new to rate$105
Shop $105 at SheVibeships free

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Smaller footprint. Same firm foam. The pillow if the bed is already crowded.

Cons

  • Smaller than the Original Wedge. Say so before you expect that lift
  • It still does not hide as a sleeping pillow

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Heart.

Official Liberator Ramp. Long inclined foam sex pillow in green cover.
Official Liberator Ramp. Long inclined foam sex pillow in green cover.
No. 4

No. 4 · Liberator

Liberator Ramp

Too new to rate$199
Shop $199 at SheVibeships free

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Longer climb. Knees. The pillow if a wedge only moved hips.

Cons

  • It does not hide under a bed the way the Wedge does
  • On a slick sheet it can walk. The cover is the grip

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Ramp.

Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
No. 5

No. 5 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Touch X

from 193 reviews$87.20 to $109
Shop $109 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $109 at SheVibeships freeShop $87.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

Ships discreetly from Intimatify

A palm once the angle holds. The pillow is not the motor.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Not insertable
  • If you already know you want air-pulse, skip ahead

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Touch X.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 6

No. 6 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Foam is not slick. Pour on the body.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-H2O.

Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 8.5 oz.
Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 8.5 oz.
No. 7

No. 7 · Sliquid

Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz

Too new to rate$15.99
Shop $15.99 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Wipe the cover. Do not soak the foam.

Cons

  • Tea tree is a smell. Patch a wrist if oils bother you
  • Soap and water still count. This is not magic

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-cleaner.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

If you're shopping, start with Liberator Jaz. The firm foam holds the angle, so hips stay lifted and every thrust lands deeper.

Picking your first Liberator? Read Liberator Wedge vs Ramp

Before you buy

Buying guide

Where we'd start

Liberator Jaz. It props you up exactly where you need it and doesn't slide around when things get rough. Solo, it's the best way to hold a toy at the perfect angle without a tired arm.

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FAQ

Common questions

How do you use a Liberator pillow?
Cover on. Under a hip or a knee. A bed pillow flattens. How to use a sex wedge.
Filming?
Best sex wedges for filming. How to choose a sex pillow.
Which shape?
Jaz is a roll. Wedge is hips. Ramp is length. How to choose a sex pillow.

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