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His and Hers Night Setup: Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo, Womanizer Premium 2 and Lube
Most couples toys are really her toy with him along for the ride. This one is fair. Each of you gets something made for your own body, and they play nicely together.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
The hands-free Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo ($149) for him, the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189) for her and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $351.99 for the whole setup.
- For him: Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo (No. 1) Shop $149 →
- For her: Womanizer Premium 2 (No. 2) Shop $189 →
- The lube: Sliquid H2O (No. 3) Shop $13.99 →
- The lower-cost swap: Hot Octopuss Atom Plus (No. 4) Shop $99 →
The verdict
Give him the Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo ($149), a hands-free oscillating toy that also vibrates for whoever presses against it, and give her the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189). Add Sliquid H2O ($13.99). The whole setup is $351.99.
- For him: Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo, no stroking needed and a rumbly top shell she can share, $149.
- For her: Womanizer Premium 2, contactless suction-style pulses that build on their own, $189.
- The glide: Sliquid H2O, water-based and safe with both, $13.99.
Quick picks
For himNo. 1 ↓
Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo
$149 to $169.99Two-motor PulsePlate guybrator built for solo or couples play.
Shop $149 at SheVibeships free
For herNo. 2 ↓
Womanizer Premium 2
The lubeNo. 3 ↓
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Shop $13.99 at SheVibeThe lower-cost swapNo. 4 ↓
Hot Octopuss Atom Plus
$99 to $101.95Wear it clit-up for two or flipped down against the perineum.
Shop $99 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% off
Quick answers
- What is the best his and hers night setup?
- The hands-free Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo ($149) for him, the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189) for her and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $351.99 for the whole setup.
- Where can I buy the Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo?
- We link to SheVibe and Hot Octopuss. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 4
The ranking
The his and hers setup, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · Hot OctopussPhoto at the top ↑
For him
Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo
Two-motor PulsePlate guybrator built for solo or couples play.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A two-motor version of the Pulse guybrator built for solo or shared nights: the oscillating PulsePlate cradles a penis underneath while the broad upper body rumbles with its own independent rumbly motor and wireless remote.
Pros
- Moving lower plate paired with a separate top-deck vibrator
- Works solo or between two bodies without needing a full erection
- Cordless clicker makes it easy to hand control to a partner
Cons
- Bulkier in the hand than the solo-only Pulse models
- Best with water-based lube along the oscillating plate
Why it ranks: For him. Oscillation does the work, and the upper shell vibrates for whoever leans in.
No. 2 · Womanizer
For her
Womanizer Premium 2
Air pulse toy, $189
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Air pulse on the clit instead of buzz, with an autopilot mode that changes the rhythm for you. Two head sizes in the box, and it is waterproof.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone stimulator heads
- Silicone and ABS body
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Angle and seal matter. Fussy if you want to mash it like a vibrator
- Smart Silence waits for skin. Annoying if you like the motor already running
Why it ranks: For her. Soft air pulse with an autopilot mode, so her hands are free too.
No. 3 · Sliquid
The lube
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Glycerin-free, unscented water-based lube that is safe with silicone toys.
Cons
- Water-based lube dries; reapply as you go
- For long play in water, choose a silicone lube
Why it ranks: The glide. Water-based, so it is safe on both toys.
No. 4 · Hot Octopuss
The lower-cost swap
Hot Octopuss Atom Plus
Wear it clit-up for two or flipped down against the perineum.
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A thick, velvety silicone ring with a weighted rumbly motor pad that can be worn facing up against a partner's clit or flipped down to press into the wearer's perineum and testicles. Five speeds and five patterns, waterproof and USB rechargeable.
Pros
- Contoured to wear either clit-up or perineum-down
- Deep, low-pitched thrum instead of a surface-level buzz
- Soft, thick stretch that stays comfortable without pinching
Cons
- No wireless remote or app; button is on the ring itself
- Snugger fit than thin beginner rings
Why it ranks: The lower-cost swap. A two-motor vibrating cock ring you share during sex.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Shopping for two usually ends with one vibrator and a lot of good intentions. That is fine until one of you is doing all the work. A his and hers setup fixes the balance: a toy that is genuinely made for him, a toy genuinely made for her, and a night where you can trade, team up, or just watch each other enjoy it.
This setup pairs the Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo for him with the Womanizer Premium 2 for her, plus Sliquid H2O. Each is in stock at the price shown, plus an Atom Plus swap that saves $50.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo
The Pulse Duo cradles the underside of a penis with an oscillating plate that does the work without stroking, so he can lie back and let it build. It works soft or hard, which takes the pressure off. The top shell has its own motor, so she can press against it while he wears it, and the wireless remote can go to either of you. Owners on Hot Octopuss give it 4.7 out of 5. It is $149 at SheVibe today.
Why the Womanizer Premium 2
Air pulse feels like a soft, rhythmic suction rather than a buzz, and it is one of the most reliable ways to an orgasm we cover. Autopilot changes the pattern on its own, so she can hold it in place and let go of the steering. It is $189 at Intimatify today.
Want to spend a little less?
Swap the Pulse Duo for the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus ($99), a vibrating cock ring with two motors that you can wear clit-up during sex. It is more of a shared toy than a his toy, but it keeps the balance. The setup becomes $301.99.
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Mistakes to avoid
How the night goes
Start side by side. He settles into the Pulse Duo, she takes the Premium 2, and you watch each other for a while, which is half the fun. When you want to get closer, she climbs on top and presses against the Duo's upper shell while it keeps working on him. Hand the remote to whoever is enjoying being in charge.
A few easy tips
Use water-based lube on both toys, and plenty of it on the Pulse plate. Give the Pulse a couple of sessions; oscillation is a new feeling, and it gets better once you know which speed you like. Charge both toys the day before so nothing dies halfway.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What is a good his and hers sex toy setup?
- This setup comes to $351.99: the Hot Octopuss Enhanced Pulse Duo for him, the Womanizer Premium 2 for her, and Sliquid H2O.
- Does the Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo work without an erection?
- Yes. The oscillating plate works flaccid or erect, which is one of the reasons people love it.
- Can you use the Pulse Duo together?
- Yes. It has a second motor in the top shell, so she can ride or lean against it while he is using it.
- Which lube works with these toys?
- A water-based lube like Sliquid H2O. Skip silicone lube on silicone toys.
- Is there a cheaper version of this setup?
- Yes. Swap in the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus ($99) for the Pulse Duo and the total drops to $301.99.
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