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Best lube for strap-on play
Sliquid Sassy leads our lube for strap-on play ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
Sliquid Sassy goes first, and the people who own it tend to agree. It's thick and cushiony, so it stays put where you need it most. Great for anal, great for long nights.
Our No. 1: Vixen Mustang
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
Vixen Mustang
Shop $125.75 at SheVibeships free
Runner-upNo. 2 ↓
SpareParts Joque Cover
Shop $148 at Pleasure Chestships free
Budget pickNo. 8 ↓
Sliquid Shine 2 oz
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
Vixen Mustang$125.75from 16 reviews$125.75 → - 2
SpareParts Joque Cover$148from 11 reviews$148 → - 3
Tantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 → - 4
Tantus Silk Medium$42Too new to rate$42 → - 5
Sportsheets Breathable Strap On$41.99 to $42Too new to rate$42 → - 6
Sliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 7
Sliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 → - 8
Sliquid Shine 2 oz$7.99from 17 reviews$7.99 →
The ranking
The full ranking
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · Vixen CreationsPhoto at the top ↑
Vixen Mustang
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Mustang after a real film.
Pros
- VixSkin dual-density silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Read the size chart. Names are not a scale
- Water-based lube. Harness not included
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Mustang.
No. 2 · SpareParts
SpareParts Joque Cover
Ships discreetly from Pleasure Chest
Joque.
Cons
- Dildo not included. Measure the neck
- You are paying clothing money for straps
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Joque.
No. 3 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Silk Small.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Water-based lube only
- Slim. That's the point
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Silk.
No. 4 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Medium
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Silk Medium.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Water-based lube
- Still smooth. If you wanted texture, that's a different toy
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-SilkMed.
No. 5 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Breathable Strap On
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Breathable.
Cons
- Dildo not included
- Bullet pocket is empty until you add a bullet
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Breathable.
No. 6 · Sliquid
Sliquid Sassy
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Thicker water-based.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: Thicker nights buy Sassy.
No. 7 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The bottle. Dry nights stall.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: Cart wants H2O.
No. 8 · Sliquid
Sliquid Shine 2 oz
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Travel Shine.
Cons
- Same oil warning as the big bottle
- You will refill it if you actually use it
Why it ranks: Rinse hop.
No. 9 · Sliquid
Sliquid Satin
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Satin.
Cons
- This is a moisturizer first. Don't expect gel padding
- If you want thick anal slip, that's Sassy
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Satin.
No. 10 · Überlube
Überlube
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Uberlube on skin only, know your toy.
Pros
- Silicone
Cons
- Do not use on silicone toys. Water-based for those
- Can stain fabric. Plan the towel
Why it ranks: Strap-lube-Uber.
More ranked picks
No. 11 · Sliquid
Sliquid Silver
Sliquid's silicone. Concentrated. Waterproof. A few drops. The cheaper-than-Überlube silicone if you already trust the brand.
Too new to rate
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 12 · Sliquid
Sliquid Organics Natural
Organics.
Too new to rate
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 13 · Sliquid
Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz
Shine.
Too new to rate
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Want something a little different? Sliquid H2O. Clean, slippery and no sticky finish. It's the bottle you stop thinking about, which is the point. Don't sleep on Vixen Mustang either.
Alone, a little extra turns a quick session into a long, slippery one. With a partner, warm it in your palms first and take your time spreading it. That part counts as foreplay.
Before you buy
Buying guide
The one on our nightstand
Sliquid Sassy. Slippery, slow and body-warm in seconds. Everything glides. Drizzle it on each other. Slow hands, lots of glide, nobody in a hurry.
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FAQ
Common questions
- What's the best pick for lube for strap-on play?
- Sliquid Sassy. It feels silky, not sticky, and stays slick long enough that you're not stopping to reapply every two minutes. Sliquid H2O is the runner-up, and a very good one.
- New to this?
- Use more than you think, reapply without apology, and match the lube to your toy.
- How loud is it?
- Lube is silent. The squelch is part of the fun.
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