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Best STP packers
Stand tall, pack proud. The gear that makes it feel natural.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
The Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP is the best STP packer: soft silicone, a wide opening and a natural shape for $32.99. On a tight budget, the Packer Gear STP Hollow is $21.99.
Our No. 1: Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP Packer
- Practice at home in the shower before you take an STP out.
- A harness or packing brief keeps everything secure.
- Silicone is the easiest material to keep clean.
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP Packer
Why it's here: Ultra-soft silicone, wide opening.
Soft silicone STP
$32.99 at SheVibeBest budget STPNo. 2 ↓
Packer Gear STP Hollow Packer
Why it's here: $21.99 and lifelike.
STP for $21.99
$21.99 at SheVibeBest realistic STPNo. 3 ↓
Gender X Realistic Stand To Pee
Why it's here: Easy-aim funnel and gentle curve.
$60.75 to $79.95Easy-aim funnel
$60.75 at SheVibeBest weighted packerNo. 4 ↓
Doc Johnson Pack It Heavy
$24.95 to $29.99Fuller everyday bulge
$29.99 at SheVibeBest harnessNo. 6 ↓
Packer Gear Boxer Brief Packing Harness
Boxer briefs that hold it
$32 at SheVibe
At a glance
Compare the top 7
- 1
Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP PackerBest overall$32.99Too new to rate$32.99 → - 2
Packer Gear STP Hollow PackerBest budget STP$21.99Too new to rate$21.99 → - 3
Gender X Realistic Stand To PeeBest realistic STP$60.75 to $79.95Too new to rate$60.75 → - 4
Doc Johnson Pack It HeavyBest weighted packer$24.95 to $29.99Too new to rate$29.99 → - 5
Doc Johnson Pack It Lite$25.95 to $25.99Too new to rate$25.99 → - 6
Packer Gear Boxer Brief Packing HarnessBest harness$32Too new to rate$32 → - 7
Packer Gear Jock Strap Harness$32.75$32.75 →
Side by side
Size and use
Sizes from each SheVibe listing, checked October 15, 2026.
| Spec | Use | Size |
|---|---|---|
| Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP | Pack and pee | 3 x 1.75 in |
| Packer Gear STP Hollow | Pack and pee | 6 in long |
| Gender X Stand To Pee | Pee, light packing | Medium |
| Pack It Heavy | Pack | 5.7 x 1.5 in |
| Pack It Lite | Pack | 4.5 x 1.3 in |
The ranking
STP packers and gear, ranked
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars show review quality only.
No. 1 · CalExotics
Best overall
Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP Packer
A hollow, lifelike STP packer in ultra-soft silicone with a full-size opening for any user. It holds its shape in most packing harnesses.
Pros
- Stand to pee and pack
- Wide opening fits most bodies
- Soft and lifelike
Cons
- Practice in the shower before going out
- Vanilla tone only
Why it ranks: The softest STP here, with a full-size opening that seals well for most bodies. Comfortable enough to wear from breakfast to bedtime.
Soft silicone STP
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 2 · CalExotics
Best budget STP
Packer Gear STP Hollow Packer
A hollow silicone STP with a realistic look: 6 inches long with a 1.5-inch shaft. Easy to clean and maintenance free.
Pros
- Our budget STP at $21.99
- Looks the part under clothes
- Rinses clean fast
Cons
- Longer than some people want
- Firmer than the Ultra-Soft
Why it ranks: The lowest-priced STP that still looks and feels the part, at $21.99. A smart first STP while you learn what you like.
STP for $21.99
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 3 · Gender X
Best realistic STP
Gender X Realistic Stand To Pee
A squishy, flexible silicone STP with lifelike texture, an easy-to-aim funnel and a gentle curve that seals against the body. Light, medium and dark tones.
Pros
- Curved for a reliable seal
- Funnel is simple to aim
- Three skin tones to choose from
Cons
- Pricier than the Packer Gear STPs
- Less of a bulge than a full packer
Why it ranks: The easiest to aim and seal, thanks to its curve and wide funnel. Three skin tones make it easy to find a match.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 4 · Doc Johnson
Best weighted packer
Doc Johnson Pack It Heavy
A solid, soft packer with veining and plush balls, 5.7 inches long and 1.5 inches wide, in phthalate-free Sil-A-Gel. Made for all-day wear.
Pros
- Natural weight and bulge
- Plush, soft feel
- Fits jock straps and briefs
Cons
- No STP channel
- Not silicone, so wash it often
Why it ranks: Weight and size that read as real through jeans. When you don't need to pee standing, this is the comfiest daily packer.
Fuller everyday bulge
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 5 · Doc Johnson
Doc Johnson Pack It Lite
The smaller sibling of Pack It Heavy: 4.5 inches long and 1.3 inches wide, with the same soft feel and veined detail. Vanilla, caramel and chocolate.
Pros
- Subtle size
- Light enough for all day
- Three skin tones
Cons
- No STP channel
- Smaller bulge than Heavy
Why it ranks: A subtle bulge for slimmer pants or a first week of packing. Light enough to forget it's there.
Subtle everyday bulge
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 6 · CalExotics
Best harness
Packer Gear Boxer Brief Packing Harness
Soft cotton boxer briefs with an internal strap and a reinforced O-ring that hold a packer, dong or probe. XS/S fits 28 to 31 inch waists.
Pros
- Looks like everyday boxers
- Holds packers steady
- Ready for a dildo later
Cons
- Size XS/S linked; other sizes cost more
- Not returnable
Why it ranks: Underwear that does the work: the internal strap keeps your packer at a natural angle, and the O-ring is ready for play.
Boxer briefs that hold it
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 7 · CalExotics
Packer Gear Jock Strap Harness
Jock cut. Stretch O-ring. Internal strap for a packer. Washable. The harness if you wanted underwear, not buckles.
Cons
- Sized like underwear. Read the waist
- Not Sportsheets padding. That's the point
Why it ranks: A jock strap that's built for packing. Lighter than briefs, great under athletic wear, and it holds a dildo too.
Jock-style packing harness
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
An STP, short for stand-to-pee, does two jobs: it gives you a bulge you can feel good about, and it lets you use a urinal or pee standing up. For a lot of trans men and transmasculine people, that's a small daily freedom that adds up.
These seven picks cover the whole kit: three STPs, two non-STP packers for days you just want the look, and two harnesses to keep it all in place. Each came from SheVibe and was in stock at the price shown on October 15, 2026.
Before you buy
Buying guide
STP or packer?
If peeing standing up matters, choose an STP like the Ultra-Soft, the Hollow or the Gender X. If you only want the look and feel, a solid packer like the Pack It Heavy is simpler and needs no practice. Many people own one of each.
Get the fit right
Your STP's cup should sit flush against your body so it seals when you pee. Try it seated first, then standing. A harness or packing brief holds it at the right angle all day; the boxer harness and jock harness here both work.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
Practice makes it easy
Start in the shower, where spills don't matter. Press the cup firmly in place, relax, and aim slightly down. Once you're confident, try it at home with clothes on, then out in the world. Rinse after each use, wash daily with mild soap and let it dry before your next wear.
No. 1 · Packer Gear Ultra-Soft STP Packer
$32.99
FAQ
Common questions
- What does STP mean?
- Stand-to-pee. An STP is a device with a cup and channel that lets you pee standing up, often shaped like a penis so it can double as a packer.
- How do I use an STP for the first time?
- Practice in the shower. Hold the cup firmly against your body to make a seal, relax, and let it flow at a slow pace. It usually takes a few tries to feel natural.
- Can I pack with an STP all day?
- Yes. Soft silicone STPs like the Packer Gear Ultra-Soft are made for all-day wear in a harness or snug briefs. Rinse it after each use.
- Do I need a harness for packing?
- Not always, but it helps. A packing harness or brief keeps the packer in place and at a natural angle, especially when you move.
- Are these packers body-safe?
- The Packer Gear and Gender X STPs are silicone. The Pack It packers use Doc Johnson's phthalate-free Sil-A-Gel. All are body-safe; wash them often.
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