First times
Best strap-on harness starter kits
Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit leads our strap-on harness starter kits ranking for beginners. Re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
We keep coming back to Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit. A comfy harness and a silicone dildo in one box. Pegging, sorted.
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit
$48 to $48.95
Shop $48 at SheVibeRunner-upNo. 2 ↓
Tantus Silk Small
Budget pickNo. 8 ↓
Sportsheets Dual Desires
$36 to $36.99
Shop $36 at SheVibe
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit$48 to $48.95Too new to rate$48 → - 2
Tantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 → - 3
Sportsheets Breathable Strap On$41.99 to $42Too new to rate$42 → - 4
SpareParts Joque Cover$148from 11 reviews$148 → - 5
Vixen Mustang$125.75from 16 reviews$125.75 → - 6
Sportsheets Plush Strap On$45Too new to rate$45 → - 7
Tantus Silk Medium$42Too new to rate$42 → - 8
Sportsheets Dual Desires$36 to $36.99Too new to rate$36 →
The ranking
The full ranking
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · SportsheetsPhoto at the top ↑
Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Saffron pegging kit.
Pros
- Silicone dildo
Cons
- The included dildo is slim on purpose. You may outgrow it
- Confirm the current kit contents on the card
Why it ranks: Kit-plus-Saffron.
No. 2 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Silk Small. Slim flared.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Slim. That's the point
- Water-based lube only
Why it ranks: Dildo-plus-SilkS.
No. 3 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Breathable Strap On
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Breathable. Mesh Sportsheets.
Cons
- Dildo not included
- Bullet pocket is empty until you add a bullet
Why it ranks: Harness-plus-Breathable.
No. 4 · SpareParts
SpareParts Joque Cover
Ships discreetly from Pleasure Chest
Joque. Clothing harness.
Cons
- Dildo not included. Measure the neck
- You are paying clothing money for straps
Why it ranks: Harness-plus-Joque.
No. 5 · Vixen Creations
Vixen Mustang
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Mustang. VixSkin in the ring.
Pros
- VixSkin dual-density silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Read the size chart. Names are not a scale
- Water-based lube. Harness not included
Why it ranks: Dildo-plus-Mustang.
No. 6 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Plush Strap On
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Plush. Longer straps.
Cons
- Dildo not included
- Plush holds lint. Wash it
Why it ranks: Harness-plus-Plush.
No. 7 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Medium
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Silk Medium.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Firm. If you wanted squish, that's Vixen
- Water-based lube
Why it ranks: Dildo-plus-SilkM.
No. 8 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Dual Desires
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Simple straps. Clear O-ring. Fewer buckles. The first harness if Joque felt like homework and Breathable still looked like a project.
Cons
- Not all-day clothing. That's Joque
- Dildo not included
Why it ranks: Who it's for: night one straps, under forty, no drama.
No. 9 · Tantus
Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Bend Over Intermediate.
Pros
- Platinum silicone dildos
Cons
- Intermediate in the name. Believe it
- You are also buying a harness. See Best strap-ons if that's the point
Why it ranks: Kit-plus-Bend.
No. 10 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Curvy Divine Strap On
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Curvy Divine. Wider hips.
Cons
- Dildo not included
- More straps means more first-night fiddling
Why it ranks: Harness-plus-Curvy.
More ranked picks
No. 11 · SpareParts
SpareParts Deuce Cover
Deuce. Packer-friendly.
Too new to rate
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 12 · CalExotics
Packer Gear Jock Strap Harness
Packer Gear jock.
Too new to rate
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 13 · Vixen Creations
Vixen Maverick
Maverick. Firmer VixSkin.
from 10 reviews
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 14 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
The bottle. Dry nights stall.
from 16 reviews
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
No. 15 · Sliquid
Sliquid Shine 2 oz
Travel Shine.
from 17 reviews
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Tantus Silk Small earns its spot too. Soft, smooth and beginner-friendly. The perfect first thing to put in a harness. And Sportsheets Breathable Strap On if you want another option.
Start with a smaller, softer dildo, cinch the harness tighter than feels necessary, and keep lube within reach. Confidence comes fast.
Before you buy
Buying guide
How it wears
Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit. Once it's cinched, it feels less like gear and more like part of you. That's when it gets fun. With a partner, go slow, grab hips and use way more lube than you think. The first time someone moans under you is a whole new kind of power.
If you want something else
If none of these grab you, Best strap-on kits for beginners is close. So is best pegging kits under 100.
FAQ
Common questions
- What's the best pick for strap-on harness starter kits?
- Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Pegging Kit. Soft straps, a firm O-ring and enough grip that you can focus on your partner instead of fiddling with buckles. If it's not your style, Tantus Silk Small is a great second choice.
- New to this?
- Confidence comes fast.
- How loud is it?
- Silent. The only noise is the one you two make.
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