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How to choose an app-controlled sex toy

Womanizer Starlet 3 leads our choose an app controlled sex toy ranking. Re-checked weekly.

Reviewed by · Prices checked · How we rank

The verdict

Bringing a toy into bed together is supposed to be fun, not a big talk. Keep it playful.

Our No. 1: Womanizer Starlet 3

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Womanizer Starlet 3

    $84 to $85

    Shop $85 at Intimatify

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  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    We-Vibe Chorus

    $209 to $219

    Shop $219 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

  3. Budget pickNo. 3 ↓

    We-Vibe Sync Lite

    $79.20 to $99

    Shop $99 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

At a glance

Compare the top 8

  1. 1Womanizer Starlet 3Womanizer Starlet 3$84 to $85from 1103 reviews$85 →
  2. 2We-Vibe ChorusWe-Vibe Chorus$209 to $219from 237 reviews$219 →
  3. 3We-Vibe Sync LiteWe-Vibe Sync Lite$79.20 to $99from 136 reviews$99 →
  4. 4We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
  5. 5We-Vibe Rave 2We-Vibe Rave 2$122.40 to $149from 137 reviews$149 →
  6. 6We-Vibe Verge 2We-Vibe Verge 2$139Too new to rate$139 →
  7. 7We-Vibe Moxie+We-Vibe Moxie+$139 to $149from 201 reviews$139 →
  8. 8We-Vibe Jive 2We-Vibe Jive 2$111.20 to $139Too new to rate$139 →

The ranking

Named pairs by job

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · WomanizerPhoto at the top ↑

Womanizer Starlet 3

from 1103 reviews$84 to $85
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Small air-pulse. Six intensities. A first vibrator if buzzing against the clit feels like too much motor. Hover until it seals. Don't mash.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone stimulator head
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Still a seal toy. Hover. Don't mash
  • Smaller motor than Premium 2. That's the point

Why it ranks: Notes are short and useful: too much, too little, needed a different angle.

Official We-Vibe Chorus. C-shaped couples wearable on white.
Official We-Vibe Chorus. C-shaped couples wearable on white.
No. 2

No. 2 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Chorus

from 237 reviews$209 to $219
Shop $219 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $209 at SheVibelower price · ships free

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The class wearable. Fit fights. The how-to if you already passed a palm and you both asked again.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Fit is the product. Wrong bodies spit it out
  • App needs two phones that behave. The remote does not

Why it ranks: How-to leak into Chorus. Not night one.

Official We-Vibe Sync Lite. Simpler couples wearable on white.
Official We-Vibe Sync Lite. Simpler couples wearable on white.
No. 3

No. 3 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Sync Lite

from 136 reviews$79.20 to $99
Shop $99 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $99 at SheVibeships freeShop $79.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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Mild C-shape. App optional. The how-to first app toy if Chorus already felt like homework. Pair at home.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • App control

Cons

  • Less adjust than Sync 2
  • Still a wearable. Ask first

Why it ranks: How-to-app names Lite. Reviews mention manners. Pair before bed.

Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
No. 4

No. 4 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Touch X

from 193 reviews$87.20 to $109
Shop $109 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $109 at SheVibeships freeShop $87.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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No login. A palm. The how-to if you are not ready for an app.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • External only — not meant to insert, which keeps first nights simple
  • If you already know you want a wand, skip ahead

Why it ranks: Touch X is the leave-the-app fork.

Official We-Vibe Rave 2 in blue. Curved G-spot vibrator on white.
Official We-Vibe Rave 2 in blue. Curved G-spot vibrator on white.
No. 5

No. 5 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Rave 2

from 137 reviews$122.40 to $149
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A curve. App optional. The how-to if the job is G-spot, not a shared C-shape.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Not a clitoral toy
  • The curve is specific. App will not fix a bad angle

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Rave. You hold it.

Official We-Vibe Moxie+. Magnetic panty vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Moxie+. Magnetic panty vibe on white.
No. 7

No. 7 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Moxie+

from 201 reviews$139 to $149
Shop $139 at Intimatifylower priceCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $149 at SheVibeships free

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Magnet. Thin. Pair at home. The how-to if the job is a panty night, not a C-shape.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable

Cons

  • Panty thickness matters. Thick fabric kills it
  • App is the remote. No squeeze puck in the box

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Moxie.

Official We-Vibe Jive 2. Wearable internal vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Jive 2. Wearable internal vibe on white.
No. 8

No. 8 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Jive 2

Too new to rate$111.20 to $139
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Egg. Flare outside. Pair at home. The how-to if you wanted a Lush-shaped job without that house.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • App control

Cons

  • It has to stay. Wrong bodies push it out
  • Phone dies, toy sits there. That's the deal

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Jive. Walk only if the flare stays.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 9

No. 9 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

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Pair at home. Then slick.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: How-to-app without H2O is still a dry night.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Put it on before things heat up, start on low, and let the person not wearing it hold the remote. Alone, it's a sneaky little preview of what you'll do together later.

Our favorite to learn on is Sliquid H2O. Clean, slippery and no sticky finish. It's the bottle you stop thinking about, which is the point.

Before you buy

Buying guide

Egg, magnet, or C-shape

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FAQ

Common questions

What is a good first app toy?
Lite or Moxie. Pair at home. Best app-controlled sex toys for beginners.
I wanted a Lush.
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