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How to clean a dildo
njoy Pure Wand leads our clean a dildo ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
A dildo is as simple as it gets. Warm it up, lube it up and go at whatever pace feels greedy.
Our No. 1: njoy Pure Wand
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
njoy Pure Wand
Shop $150 at SheVibeships free
Runner-upNo. 2 ↓
Tantus Silk Medium
Budget pickNo. 4 ↓
Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
njoy Pure Wand$150from 24 reviews$150 → - 2
Tantus Silk Medium$42Too new to rate$42 → - 3
Vixen Maverick$129.50from 10 reviews$129.50 → - 4
Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal$26Too new to rate$26 → - 5
Tantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 → - 6
Sliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 → - 7
Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz$15.99Too new to rate$15.99 → - 8
JO Refresh Foaming 7 oz$16.99Too new to rate$16.99 →
The ranking
Named shafts and a spray
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · njoyPhoto at the top ↑
njoy Pure Wand
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Steel. Soap. Or a boil if you want hospital manners. Dry. No chip story.
Pros
- Body-safe stainless steel
Cons
- Hard. Go slower than silicone
- No flared suction cup. This is a hand toy
Why it ranks: How-to-clean-plus-njoy. Weight is not a sink fight.
No. 2 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Medium
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Same polymer. Bigger. Same sink. Same dry.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Firm. If you wanted squish, that's Vixen
- Water-based lube
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Silk Medium.
No. 3 · Vixen Creations
Vixen Maverick
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VixSkin. Dual-density. Soap and water. No boil unless Vixen said. Dry in air.
Pros
- Flared base
Cons
- Water-based lube. Silicone lube can damage silicone
- Heavier than a Silk. That's the skin
Why it ranks: How-to-clean-plus-Vixen. Dual-density is still named silicone.
No. 4 · Liberator
Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal
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Dry. Then a lined bag. Not two silicones kissing in a drawer.
Cons
- Same size as grape. A wand still fits. A wedge does not
- Lock still sold separately
Why it ranks: Clean-then-store. Silicone on silicone can bond.
No. 5 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
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Platinum. A flare. Soap, rinse, dry, bag. The how-to shaft people can name.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Slim. That's the point
- Water-based lube only
Why it ranks: How-to-clean-plus-Silk. Firmness is not porosity.
No. 6 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
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Water-based rinses off. Silicone lube on silicone is the fight.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: How-to-clean starts with what you poured.
No. 7 · Sliquid
Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz
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Named spray on platinum. Soap still counts. The how-to bottle.
Cons
- Tea tree is a smell. Patch a wrist if oils bother you
- Soap and water still count. This is not magic
Why it ranks: Clean-a-dildo how-to names Shine. Boil only if the maker said so.
No. 8 · System JO
JO Refresh Foaming 7 oz
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The other spray. Same job.
Cons
- Rinse. Don't leave foam in a motor seam
- Not a reason to skip soap on silicone
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Refresh.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Go smaller than your ego wants, warm it up in your hands and use plenty of water-based lube. You can size up next time. Alone, go slow at first and let yourself get greedy. That's what it's for.
If you're shopping, start with Sliquid H2O. Clean, slippery and no sticky finish. It's the bottle you stop thinking about, which is the point.
Before you buy
Buying guide
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FAQ
Common questions
- Can I boil a silicone dildo?
- Only if the maker said. Silk usually yes. VixSkin is picky. How to clean sex toys.
- Two silicones in one drawer?
- They can bond. How to store sex toys. Best sex toy storage bags.
- Jelly?
- Soap does not save porous junk. How to choose silicone vs jelly toys.
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