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Womanizer Starlet 3 leads our gift a sex toy ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.

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The verdict

Lube is the easiest way to make everything feel better. More glide, less friction, longer nights.

Our No. 1: Womanizer Starlet 3

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Womanizer Starlet 3

    $84 to $85

    Shop $85 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    We-Vibe Touch X

    $87.20 to $109

    Shop $109 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

  3. Budget pickNo. 5 ↓

    Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal

    Shop $26 at SheVibe

At a glance

Compare the top 8

  1. 1Womanizer Starlet 3Womanizer Starlet 3$84 to $85from 1103 reviews$85 →
  2. 2We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
  3. 3We-Vibe Tango XWe-Vibe Tango X$72 to $85from 324 reviews$85 →
  4. 4We-Vibe Pivot 2We-Vibe Pivot 2$129from 10 reviews$129 →
  5. 5Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — CharcoalLiberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal$26Too new to rate$26 →
  6. 6Dame PomDame Pom$103Too new to rate$103 →
  7. 7We-Vibe ChorusWe-Vibe Chorus$209 to $219from 237 reviews$219 →
  8. 8We-Vibe Sync LiteWe-Vibe Sync Lite$79.20 to $99from 136 reviews$99 →

The ranking

Named gifts after you asked

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · WomanizerPhoto at the top ↑

Womanizer Starlet 3

from 1103 reviews$84 to $85
Shop $85 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $84 at SheVibelower price · ships free

Ships discreetly from Intimatify

Small. Named. Returnable. The how-to gift if you asked and they wanted a first seal.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone head

Cons

  • Skip it if they already asked for a wand
  • Confirm the shop's plain-box shipping on the current page, not a 2021 blog

Why it ranks: How-to-gift names Starlet. Ask first. Keep the receipt.

Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
No. 2

No. 2 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Touch X

from 193 reviews$87.20 to $109
Shop $109 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $109 at SheVibeships freeShop $87.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

Ships discreetly from Intimatify

A palm you can pass.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Not a wand. Say that out loud if they wanted rumble they can feel in a wrist
  • Keep the receipt

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Touch X. Not a surprise wearable.

Liberator Zappa toy bag in charcoal microsuede.
Liberator Zappa toy bag in charcoal microsuede.
No. 5

No. 5 · Liberator

Liberator Zappa Toy Bag — Charcoal

Too new to rate$26
Shop $26 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

The bag. Charcoal. The how-to wrap if the porch is the fear.

Cons

  • Same size as grape. A wand still fits. A wedge does not
  • Lock still sold separately

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Zappa.

Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator on a light background.
Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator on a light background.
No. 6

No. 6 · Dame

Dame Pom

Too new to rate$103
Shop $103 at SheVibeships free

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

A pebble. Soft.

Pros

  • Medical-grade silicone

Cons

  • Mild. Don't gift it to someone who asked for a Magic Wand
  • Ask about silicone allergies if you are the kind of person who asks

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Pom.

Official We-Vibe Sync Lite in aqua. Slim C-shaped couples vibrator on white.
Official We-Vibe Sync Lite in aqua. Slim C-shaped couples vibrator on white.
No. 8

No. 8 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Sync Lite

from 136 reviews$79.20 to $99
Shop $99 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $99 at SheVibeships freeShop $79.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

Ships discreetly from Intimatify

Mild wearable. The how-to gift only if a palm already worked and you both asked again.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone

Cons

  • Still ask
  • Milder motor. Say that if they wanted Chorus

Why it ranks: How-to leak into Lite. Not a surprise.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 9

No. 9 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Same wrap. The bottle. The how-to gift that is not a dare.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: How-to-gift without H2O is a dry unboxing.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Use more than you think, reapply without apology, and match the lube to your toy. Alone, a little extra turns a quick session into a long, slippery one.

The one we'd practice with is Sliquid H2O. Clean, slippery and no sticky finish. It's the bottle you stop thinking about, which is the point.

Before you buy

Buying guide

The one on our nightstand

Sliquid H2O. It's thin, silky and totally unscented, and it plays nicely with every silicone toy in your drawer. With a partner, warm it in your palms first and take your time spreading it. That part counts as foreplay.

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FAQ

Common questions

Is it okay to gift a sex toy?
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What if I do not know their taste?
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A wearable?
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