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Tantus Silk Small leads our spot unsafe sex toys ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.

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The verdict

A dildo is as simple as it gets. Warm it up, lube it up and go at whatever pace feels greedy.

Our No. 1: Tantus Silk Small

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Tantus Silk Small

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    Womanizer Starlet 3

    $84 to $85

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  3. Budget pickNo. 9 ↓

    Tantus Super Soft C-Ring

At a glance

Compare the top 8

  1. 1Tantus Silk SmallTantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 →
  2. 2Womanizer Starlet 3Womanizer Starlet 3$84 to $85from 1103 reviews$85 →
  3. 3njoy Pure Plugnjoy Pure Plug$85Too new to rate$85 →
  4. 4Dame PomDame Pom$103Too new to rate$103 →
  5. 5We-Vibe Tango XWe-Vibe Tango X$72 to $85from 324 reviews$85 →
  6. 6b-Vibe Novice Plugb-Vibe Novice Plug$110 to $123.95Too new to rate$110 →
  7. 7Icicles No. 5Icicles No. 5$31.95 to $38Too new to rate$38 →
  8. 8TENGA Egg Hard Boiled IITENGA Egg Hard Boiled II$41.94from 25 reviews$41.94 →

The ranking

The full ranking

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · TantusPhoto at the top ↑

Tantus Silk Small

Too new to rate$31.99

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

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Platinum silicone. No motor. Flared.

Pros

  • Platinum-cure silicone
  • Flared base

Cons

  • Slim. That's the point
  • Water-based lube only

Why it ranks: Body-safe search that wants Silk.

Official njoy Pure Plug product photo. Stainless plug family on a wide studio background.
Official njoy Pure Plug product photo. Stainless plug family on a wide studio background.
No. 3

No. 3 · njoy

njoy Pure Plug

Too new to rate$85

Steel. Heavy.

Pros

  • Body-safe stainless steel
  • Flared base

Cons

  • Pick the size from the millimeter chart, not a vibe
  • Hard. Lube. Slow

Why it ranks: Body-safe-plus-steel.

Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator standing on a light background.
Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator standing on a light background.
No. 4

No. 4 · Dame

Dame Pom

Too new to rate$103

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

External silicone head. Dame.

Pros

  • Bends to fit wherever you press it
  • Waterproof, so it rinses clean
  • Rechargeable, no batteries to buy

Cons

  • Mild next to a wand — don't expect to rattle the bed
  • Use water-based lube if you want glide

Why it ranks: Body-safe-plus-Pom.

Icicles No. 5 by Pipedream.
Icicles No. 5 by Pipedream.
No. 7

No. 7 · Pipedream

Icicles No. 5

Too new to rate$31.95 to $38

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

The glass dildo people still type. Blue swirl in the glass, not painted on. About 7 inches, 1.25 across. Flared enough to hold. Temperature toy.

Pros

  • Borosilicate glass

Cons

  • A chip means trash. Drop it once and retire it
  • Hard. Lube. Slower than silicone

Why it ranks: Hand-blown glass you can warm or chill in water before you play.

TENGA Egg Hard Boiled Edition II variety six-pack by TENGA.
TENGA Egg Hard Boiled Edition II variety six-pack by TENGA.
No. 8

No. 8 · TENGA

TENGA Egg Hard Boiled II

from 25 reviews$41.94

Six single-use stretch sleeves in egg cases. Hard Boiled Edition II textures. Lotion in the box. Airport energy.

Cons

  • One use. That's the product
  • If you already know you want reusable, skip to Flip or Spinner

Why it ranks: Body-safe-plus-egg.

Tantus Super Soft silicone C-ring in onyx.
Tantus Super Soft silicone C-ring in onyx.
No. 9

No. 9 · Tantus

Tantus Super Soft C-Ring

Too new to rate$12

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Soft silicone ring. No jelly.

Pros

  • Platinum-cure silicone

Cons

  • Lube the silicone. Dry grabs
  • Any numbness means it comes off right away

Why it ranks: Body-safe-plus-ring.

Official njoy Pure Wand product photo. Stainless S-curve on a wide studio background.
Official njoy Pure Wand product photo. Stainless S-curve on a wide studio background.
No. 10

No. 10 · njoy

njoy Pure Wand

from 24 reviews$150

Steel wand. Weight.

Pros

  • Body-safe stainless steel

Cons

  • Hard. Go slower than silicone
  • No flared suction cup. This is a hand toy

Why it ranks: Body-safe-plus-Pure-Wand.

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Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 11

No. 11 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

Glycerin-free water. The bottle.

from 16 reviews

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 8.5 oz.
Sliquid Shine naturally unscented organic toy cleaner 8.5 oz.
No. 12

No. 12 · Sliquid

Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz

Aloe spray after the rinse.

Too new to rate

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Sliquid Organics Natural by Sliquid.
Sliquid Organics Natural by Sliquid.
No. 13

No. 13 · Sliquid

Sliquid Organics Natural

Organics line. Still a name.

Too new to rate

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Go smaller than your ego wants, warm it up in your hands and use plenty of water-based lube. You can size up next time. Alone, go slow at first and let yourself get greedy. That's what it's for.

The one we'd practice with is Tantus Silk Small. Soft, smooth and beginner-friendly. The perfect first thing to put in a harness.

Before you buy

Buying guide

What it feels like

Tantus Silk Small. It's got real weight to it. Slow strokes feel full, and the curve finds the spot without much aiming. Use it while they go down on you. Full and licked at the same time is a very good combination.

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