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How to use a prostate vibrator

Aneros Helix Syn Trident leads our use a prostate vibrator ranking for women. Re-checked weekly.

Reviewed by · Prices checked · How we rank

The verdict

Prostate play is slow and deep, and the payoff is a full-body orgasm people struggle to describe.

Our No. 1: Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Aneros Helix Syn Trident

    $69.95 to $74.95

    Shop $69.95 at SheVibe

    ships free

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    Aneros Helix Syn V

    $99.99 to $101.95

    Shop $99.99 at SheVibe

    ships free

  3. Also greatNo. 3 ↓

    We-Vibe Vector+

    $119.20 to $149

    Shop $139 at Intimatify

    Code BEDSIDE15: 15% off

At a glance

Compare the top 6

  1. 1Aneros Helix Syn TridentAneros Helix Syn Trident$69.95 to $74.95Too new to rate$69.95 →
  2. 2Aneros Helix Syn VAneros Helix Syn V$99.99 to $101.95Too new to rate$99.99 →
  3. 3We-Vibe Vector+We-Vibe Vector+$119.20 to $149Too new to rate$139 →
  4. 4Aneros Vice 2Aneros Vice 2$149.95 to $160.95Too new to rate$150 →
  5. 5Playboy Pleasure Solo StrokerPlayboy Pleasure Solo Stroker$112.50 to $124.95Too new to rate$112.50 →
  6. 6Sliquid SassySliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 →

The ranking

Named prostate vibrators to start low with

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank
Aneros Helix Syn V by Aneros.
Aneros Helix Syn V by Aneros.
No. 2

No. 2 · Aneros

Aneros Helix Syn V

Too new to rate$99.99 to $101.95
Shop $99.99 at SheVibelower price · ships freeShop $101.95 at Pleasure Chestships free

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Helix shape. Motor optional. Try it off first. Then one pattern.

Pros

  • Silicone coating
  • Rechargeable motor

Cons

  • Larger than the silent Helix. Size is the first night
  • You can still use it off. That's the point

Why it ranks: V how-to. Official Syn V is live.

We-Vibe Vector+ by We-Vibe.
We-Vibe Vector+ by We-Vibe.
No. 3

No. 3 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Vector+

Too new to rate$119.20 to $149
Shop $139 at Intimatifylower priceCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $149 at SheVibeships freeShop $119.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

Ships discreetly from Intimatify

Adjustable. App extra. Perineum arm. Charge before the night.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • If you wanted a simple weighted plug, this is the wrong aisle
  • The arm is an acquired taste. Some people skip it

Why it ranks: Vector how-to.

Playboy Pleasure Solo rechargeable textured vibrating stroker.
Playboy Pleasure Solo rechargeable textured vibrating stroker.
No. 5

No. 5 · Playboy Pleasure

Playboy Pleasure Solo Stroker

Too new to rate$112.50 to $124.95
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Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Two motors. Tightening plus vibration. Textured channel. The branded automatic if Pulsar already felt close and you wanted a different case.

Pros

  • Rechargeable motors

Cons

  • You still hold it
  • Water-based. Don't bag it wet

Why it ranks: Two motors that tighten and buzz together, in a hard case.

Sliquid Sassy by Sliquid.
Sliquid Sassy by Sliquid.
No. 6

No. 6 · Sliquid

Sliquid Sassy

Too new to rate$13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibe

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Ships discreetly from SheVibe

Gel. A vibrator still needs padding. Don't run it dry.

Cons

  • Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
  • Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long

Why it ranks: How-to nights buy gel.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Lots of thick lube, a relaxed body and patience. The first time is exploring, not a race. Alone, give yourself time and no expectations. The first shaky, full-body wave is worth the patience.

Our favorite to learn on is Sliquid Sassy. It's thick and cushiony, so it stays put where you need it most. Great for anal, great for long nights.

Before you buy

Buying guide

What it feels like

Aneros Helix Syn Trident. Hands-free once it's in. Squeeze and relax and it rocks against you with every breath. Let your partner take control of it while you're face down in the pillows. Surrender looks good on you.

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Mistakes to avoid

Don't run it dry because the motor is 'doing the work'

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FAQ

Common questions

How do you use a prostate vibrator?
Find it silent first if you can. Then lowest buzz. How to find your prostate. How to use a prostate massager.
Hugo or Helix V?
Hugo if you want a remote. V if you already know Helix. Best prostate vibrators.
App on night one?
Usually no. Best app-controlled prostate massagers later.

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