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How to use sex toys in the shower

Womanizer Starlet 3 leads our use sex toys in the shower ranking. Re-checked weekly.

Reviewed by · Prices checked · How we rank

The verdict

Lube is the easiest way to make everything feel better. More glide, less friction, longer nights.

Our No. 1: Womanizer Starlet 3

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Womanizer Starlet 3

    $84 to $85

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  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    We-Vibe Tango X

    $72 to $85

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  3. Also greatNo. 3 ↓

    We-Vibe Touch X

    $87.20 to $109

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At a glance

Compare the top 7

  1. 1Womanizer Starlet 3Womanizer Starlet 3$84 to $85from 1103 reviews$85 →
  2. 2We-Vibe Tango XWe-Vibe Tango X$72 to $85from 324 reviews$85 →
  3. 3We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
  4. 4We-Vibe Pivot 2We-Vibe Pivot 2$129from 10 reviews$129 →
  5. 5We-Vibe ChorusWe-Vibe Chorus$209 to $219from 237 reviews$219 →
  6. 6Dame PomDame Pom$103Too new to rate$103 →
  7. 7Sliquid H2OSliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 →

The ranking

Named IPX7 to rinse

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · WomanizerPhoto at the top ↑

Womanizer Starlet 3

from 1103 reviews$84 to $85
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Small air-pulse. Six intensities. A first vibrator if buzzing against the clit feels like too much motor. Hover until it seals. Don't mash.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone stimulator head
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Still a seal toy. Hover. Don't mash
  • Smaller motor than Premium 2. That's the point

Why it ranks: Notes are short and useful: too much, too little, needed a different angle.

Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
No. 3

No. 3 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Touch X

from 193 reviews$87.20 to $109
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Palm. IPX7. Charge dry. The how-to if you wanted pressure against a wall.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Not insertable
  • Soap still makes any toy slide

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Touch X.

Official We-Vibe Pivot 2 in Slate. Stretchy vibrating ring with a motor bump on white.
Official We-Vibe Pivot 2 in Slate. Stretchy vibrating ring with a motor bump on white.
No. 4

No. 4 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Pivot 2

from 10 reviews$129
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A bump. Rinse. Charge dry. A timer. The how-to shared stall ring.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable motor
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • A vibe on a band. Not a tight cock ring
  • Lube it. Dry silicone grabs

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Pivot. Ask first.

Official We-Vibe Chorus in Cosmic Pink. C-shaped wearable couples vibrator on white.
Official We-Vibe Chorus in Cosmic Pink. C-shaped wearable couples vibrator on white.
No. 5

No. 5 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Chorus

from 237 reviews$209 to $219
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C-shape. App. Pair dry. Rinse. The how-to if you both already asked and the stall is the night.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • ABS remote
  • IPX7 toy. Remote is splashproof.

Cons

  • If it slips, it's garbage. Returns happen
  • App needs the squeeze remote nearby. Keep them together

Why it ranks: How-to leak into Chorus. Fit still fights.

Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator on a light background.
Official Dame Pom in Ice. Soft palm vibrator on a light background.
No. 6

No. 6 · Dame

Dame Pom

Too new to rate$103
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Soft pebble. IPX7. The how-to if a wand already felt like furniture in a stall.

Pros

  • Medical-grade silicone
  • USB-C rechargeable
  • Waterproof

Cons

  • Mild next to a wand

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Pom.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 7

No. 7 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99
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Water kills slick. Reapply. Same cart.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: How-to-shower without H2O is a scrape.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Use more than you think, reapply without apology, and match the lube to your toy. Solo, lube makes every toy feel twice as good. Don't be stingy.

The one we'd practice with is Sliquid H2O. It's thin, silky and totally unscented, and it plays nicely with every silicone toy in your drawer.

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Before you buy

Buying guide

Why this bottle wins

Sliquid H2O. Clean, slippery and no sticky finish. It's the bottle you stop thinking about, which is the point. With a partner, warm it in your palms first and take your time spreading it. That part counts as foreplay.

Not quite it?

Different mood tonight? Try best suction cup dildos for shower, or how to choose a suction cup dildo if you want to wander further.

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Mistakes to avoid

Slick dies in water

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FAQ

Common questions

What toys are safe in the shower?
Named IPX7. Charge dry. Best shower sex toys. Best suction cup dildos for shower.
Does water replace lube?
No. Reapply. How to use lube. Best water-based lube.
A wand?
Usually no. How to use a wand vibrator. Best waterproof wands if the maker said.

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