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Best prostate toys for couples
A second hand, or an arm that stays. More gel than you think.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
If you buy one thing off this page, make it njoy Pure Wand. Heavy polished steel with curves at both ends. It presses exactly where you point it, hard.
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
njoy Pure Wand
Shop $150 at SheVibeships free
Runner-upNo. 2 ↓
njoy Pure Plug
Shop $85 at SheVibeships free
Budget pickNo. 3 ↓
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
At a glance
Compare the top 8
- 1
njoy Pure Wand$150from 24 reviews$150 → - 2
njoy Pure Plug$85Too new to rate$85 → - 3
Aneros Helix Syn Trident$69.95 to $73.95Too new to rate$69.95 → - 4
b-Vibe Novice Plug$110 to $123.95Too new to rate$110 → - 5
We-Vibe Verge 2$139Too new to rate$139 → - 6
We-Vibe Vector+$119.20 to $149Too new to rate$139 → - 7
Aneros Vice 2$149.95 to $158.95Too new to rate$150 → - 8
Sliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 →
The ranking
The full ranking
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · njoyPhoto at the top ↑
njoy Pure Wand
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Steel. Two ends. A partner can hold it. The couples prostate wand if hands were the point.
Pros
- Body-safe stainless steel
Cons
- Hard. Go slower than silicone
- Heavy. If your hands tire, this is a lot
Why it ranks: Couples-plus-Pure-Wand. Reviews mention the S-curve and a second person.
No. 2 · njoy
njoy Pure Plug
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Steel stay. A partner can check the neck. The couples plug if weight was the request.
Pros
- Body-safe stainless steel
- Flared base
Cons
- Pick the size from the millimeter chart, not a mood
- Hard. Lube. Slow
Why it ranks: Couples-plus-Pure-Plug.
No. 3 · Aneros
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
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Hands-free. You still need patience. The couples toy if a partner wanted to watch, not steer.
Pros
- Silicone coating
Cons
- Hands-free takes practice. Night one can feel like nothing
- No motor. If you wanted buzz, that's Helix Syn V or Hugo 2
Why it ranks: Couples leak into Helix. Fit is adjacent.
No. 4 · b-Vibe
b-Vibe Novice Plug
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Small vibrating first plug. Soft silicone. The name is the pitch. For people who want a motor on night one and a size that does not pick a fight.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
Cons
- Beginner size. The motor will not save a bad angle
- If you wanted weight and no buzz, that's Snug 1
Why it ranks: A small first plug with a remote-controlled motor.
No. 5 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Verge 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Ring plus perineum arm. Motor. The couples prostate toy if a penis was already in the night.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- The arm is a specific extra. Some people hate it
- Not Pivot. Don't buy it expecting a clitoral pad
Why it ranks: Couples-plus-prostate search that wants a shared toy lands on Verge.
No. 6 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Vector+
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
App. Perineum arm. The couples prostate plug if someone else wanted the phone.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- Waterproof
Cons
- If you wanted a simple weighted plug, this is the wrong aisle
- The arm is an acquired taste. Some people skip it
Why it ranks: Couples-plus-Vector.
No. 7 · Aneros
Aneros Vice 2
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Fuller Aneros with vibration. For people who want fill plus the tab, not a slim Helix. Eight patterns. Not a first toy.
Pros
- Silicone
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Larger. Don't start here
- If you wanted slim and silent, that's Helix Syn Trident
Why it ranks: The Aneros hands-free shape with a motor added.
No. 8 · Sliquid
Sliquid Sassy
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
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Thick gel. Couples prostate without padding is how people quit.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: Shared prostate nights still want the bottle.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Don't sleep on njoy Pure Plug either.
With a partner, have them work it slowly while they go down on you. Try not to wake the neighbors.
Want a partner on the remote? Read is the We-Vibe Vector+ worth it?
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why this one's first
njoy Pure Wand. Deep, rumbly, thuddy vibration that you feel all the way through your hips. Not a buzz. A roar. Alone, give yourself time and no expectations. The first shaky, full-body wave is worth the patience.
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FAQ
Common questions
- What is the best prostate toy for couples?
- Verge 2 if a penis is already in the night. Pure Wand if a partner wants to hold steel. How to use a prostate massager. How to use a prostate plug.
- Can we use a plug during sex?
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