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Gay Couples Night Setup: Lovense Edge 2, We-Vibe Pivot 2, Lube and Cleaner
Two of you, a long evening and one of you holding the remote. Here's a setup for men who love men.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
Pair the Lovense Edge 2 ($99), a prostate massager your partner runs from his phone, with the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ($129) vibrating ring. Add Sliquid Sassy and toy cleaner, and the whole setup is $251.98.
- For him to wear: Lovense Edge 2 (No. 1) Shop $99 →
- For during sex: We-Vibe Pivot 2 (No. 2) Shop $129 →
- The lube: Sliquid Sassy (No. 3) Shop $13.99 →
- For after: Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner (No. 4) Shop $9.99 →
The verdict
Pair the Lovense Edge 2 ($99), a prostate massager your partner runs from his phone, with the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ($129), a stretchy vibrating ring. Add Sliquid Sassy ($13.99) and toy cleaner ($9.99), and the whole setup is $251.98.
- For him to wear: Lovense Edge 2, a dual-motor prostate massager you control from the app, $99.
- For during sex: We-Vibe Pivot 2, a vibrating ring for whoever's on top, $129.
- The extras: Sliquid Sassy anal lube and toy cleaner, under $24 together.
Quick picks
For him to wearNo. 1 ↓
Lovense Edge 2
For during sexNo. 2 ↓
We-Vibe Pivot 2
The lubeNo. 3 ↓
Sliquid Sassy
Thick anal lube
Shop $13.99 at SheVibeFor afterNo. 4 ↓
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Spritz and rinse
Shop $9.99 at SheVibe
Quick answers
- What is the best gay couples setup?
- Pair the Lovense Edge 2 ($99), a prostate massager your partner runs from his phone, with the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ($129) vibrating ring. Add Sliquid Sassy and toy cleaner, and the whole setup is $251.98.
- Where can I buy the Lovense Edge 2?
- We link to SheVibe and Pleasure Chest. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 5
- 1
Lovense Edge 2For him to wear$99 to $141.95Too new to rate$99 → - 2
We-Vibe Pivot 2For during sex$129from 10 reviews$129 → - 3
Sliquid SassyThe lube$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 4
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy CleanerFor after$9.99Too new to rate$9.99 → - 5
Aneros Helix Syn Trident$69.95 to $72.95Too new to rate$69.95 →
The ranking
The setup for two men, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · LovensePhoto at the top ↑
For him to wear
Lovense Edge 2
App-controlled prostate
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An adjustable dual-motor prostate massager that hits the P-spot and perineum at once, with app control for solo, public or long-distance play. IPX7 waterproof.
Pros
- Adjustable angle for a custom fit
- Inside and outside at once
- Play together from anywhere
Cons
- App only, no remote
- Firmer than the Aneros
Why it ranks: The center of the night. Two motors, inside and out, with your partner in charge of both.
No. 2 · We-Vibe
For during sex
We-Vibe Pivot 2
Vibrates during sex
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A soft, stretchy ring at the base with a motor bump you turn toward your clit. Every time your hips meet, it buzzes right there. They stay harder, you come sooner.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Twenty to thirty minutes on, then off
- Lube the inside of the band first
Why it ranks: For during sex. A stretchy vibrating ring that keeps him firm and adds buzz for both of you.
No. 3 · Sliquid
The lube
Sliquid Sassy
Thick anal lube
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Same clean Sliquid formula, thicker. Gel that stays put. The one people grab for anal or for a night that needs padding, not a thin slick.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: The lube. A thick, water-based gel that stays put for anal play.
No. 4 · Doc Johnson
For after
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Spritz and rinse
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An antibacterial spray for after. Spritz, rinse, air dry, done.
Cons
- Rinse after spraying
- Soap and warm water work too
Why it ranks: For after. Spritz, rinse and air dry.
No. 5 · Aneros
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The hands-free Aneros people mean. Soft silicone over a firm core. Perineum tab. You move it with muscle, not a remote. No vibration unless you buy the V.
Pros
- Silicone coating
Cons
- Hands-free takes practice. Night one can feel like nothing
- No motor. If you wanted buzz, that's Helix Syn V or Hugo 2
Why it ranks: The swap. A hands-free prostate massager with no motor, moved by your own muscles.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Plenty of couples toys assume one partner has a clit. This setup doesn't. It pairs a prostate massager your partner controls from his phone with a vibrating ring that makes sex itself buzz, plus the thick lube that anal play needs.
Here's the full setup, each piece in stock at the price shown, plus a hands-free swap if you'd rather skip the app.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the Edge 2
The arm presses on the perineum while the inside end works the prostate, and the angle adjusts to fit. It's waterproof and runs from the Lovense Remote app, so your partner can tease from across the room or across town. It's $99 at SheVibe today.
Why the Pivot 2
A stretchy ring with a small motor. Whoever's on top wears it to stay firm, and the vibration carries through to his partner. It's $129 at Intimatify today and waterproof.
Want a hands-free swap?
Trade the Edge 2 for the Aneros Helix Syn Trident ($69.95). No motor and no app. Your own muscles move it, which takes some patience and feels incredible once you get the hang of it. The setup becomes $222.93.
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Mistakes to avoid
How the night goes
Start slow with plenty of Sassy and the Edge 2 on its lowest setting. Let your partner take the phone while you kiss and touch. When you move on to sex, the Pivot 2 goes on whoever's on top, and the Edge 2 can stay right where it is for the one who isn't.
After
Wash the Edge 2 and the Pivot 2 with warm water and a spritz of cleaner, and let them air dry before charging.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What sex toys are good for gay couples?
- A prostate toy one partner wears and a ring for during sex. This setup is $251.98 with the Lovense Edge 2, We-Vibe Pivot 2, Sliquid Sassy and toy cleaner.
- Can my partner control the Edge 2?
- Yes, from his phone, whether he's next to you or in another city.
- What lube works best for this setup?
- A thick water-based gel like Sliquid Sassy. It stays put for anal play and is safe with silicone toys.
- Are these toys waterproof?
- Yes, the Edge 2 and Pivot 2 are both waterproof and rechargeable.
- Is there a cheaper option?
- Swap in the Aneros Helix Syn Trident at $69.95. It's hands-free with no motor, and the setup comes to $222.93.
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