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Temperature Play Night Setup: njoy Pure Wand, Icicles Glass Dildo, Massage Candle and Lube
Warm oil on bare skin, then the shock of cool steel. Temperature play is the easiest way to make familiar touch feel brand new, and it needs nothing more than a bowl of water.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
The njoy Pure Wand in stainless steel ($150), the Icicles No. 5 glass dildo ($38), a Kama Sutra Ignite massage candle ($24) and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $225.99 for the whole setup.
- The steel: njoy Pure Wand (No. 1) Shop $150 →
- The glass: Icicles No. 5 (No. 2) Shop $38 →
- The warm oil: Kama Sutra Ignite Vanilla Sandalwood (No. 3) Shop $24 →
- The lower-cost swap: njoy Fun Wand (No. 5) Shop $110 →
The verdict
For a warm and cool night, pair the njoy Pure Wand ($150), stainless steel that holds heat or chill, with the Icicles No. 5 glass dildo ($38) so you have one of each material. Add a Kama Sutra Ignite massage candle ($24) for warm oil on skin and Sliquid H2O ($13.99). The whole setup is $225.99.
- The star: njoy Pure Wand, weighty steel that warms or cools fast and holds it, $150.
- The contrast: Icicles No. 5, hand-blown glass that takes the temperature more gently, $38.
- The warm-up: Kama Sutra Ignite candle for warm massage oil, plus Sliquid H2O, under $38 together.
Quick picks
The steelNo. 1 ↓
njoy Pure Wand
The glassNo. 2 ↓
Icicles No. 5
$31.95 to $38Glass dildo, $38
Shop $38 at SheVibeThe warm oilNo. 3 ↓
Kama Sutra Ignite Vanilla Sandalwood
Massage candle, $24
Shop $24 at SheVibeThe lower-cost swapNo. 5 ↓
njoy Fun Wand
Quick answers
- What is the best temperature play night setup?
- The njoy Pure Wand in stainless steel ($150), the Icicles No. 5 glass dildo ($38), a Kama Sutra Ignite massage candle ($24) and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $225.99 for the whole setup.
- Where can I buy the njoy Pure Wand?
- We link to SheVibe and Pleasure Chest. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 5
The ranking
The temperature play setup, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars show review quality only.
No. 1 · njoyPhoto at the top ↑
The steel
njoy Pure Wand
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The steel wand people mean. Weight. Two ends. A first dildo only if you already like firm pressure and you have lube in reach.
Pros
- Body-safe stainless steel
Cons
- Hard. Go slower than silicone
- No flared suction cup. This is a hand toy
Why it ranks: The steel. Holds warmth or chill longest, with a curve made for G-spot and P-spot.
No. 2 · Pipedream
The glass
Icicles No. 5
Glass dildo, $38
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
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The glass dildo people still type. Blue swirl in the glass, not painted on. About 7 inches, 1.25 across. Flared enough to hold. Temperature toy.
Pros
- Borosilicate glass
Cons
- A chip means trash. Drop it once and retire it
- Hard. Lube. Slower than silicone
Why it ranks: The glass. A gentler temperature change and a lighter feel in the hand.
No. 3 · Kama Sutra
The warm oil
Kama Sutra Ignite Vanilla Sandalwood
Massage candle, $24
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
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Same melt. A different scent. Patch a wrist if fragrance bothers you.
Cons
- Fragrance can bother a reactive chest. Patch a wrist
- Still oil. Not a toy lube
Why it ranks: The warm oil. Melts into massage oil you pour onto skin.
No. 4 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
Lube, $13.99
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The bottle under every other pick. Glycerin-free. Unscented. Works with silicone toys. You reapply. Buy this before you buy a second toy.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: The lube. Water-based, safe on steel and glass, easy to rinse.
No. 5 · njoy
The lower-cost swap
njoy Fun Wand
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Smaller njoy. Steel. Weight without a leap in girth. A first metal toy if you already know you want pressure, not squish.
Pros
- Body-safe stainless steel
Cons
- More geometry. Easier to use wrong on night one
- Still a hand toy. Not a harness dildo
Why it ranks: The lower-cost swap. Slimmer steel with playful bends, $40 less.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Temperature play sounds advanced, but it is mostly about contrast. A warm hand, then something cool. A chilled toy, then a warm mouth. Your nerves notice every change, so even slow, simple touches feel electric.
This setup gives you one steel toy and one glass toy, since each holds temperature differently, plus a massage candle for warmth and a lube that is safe on both. Each is in stock at the price shown, and there is an njoy Fun Wand swap that saves $40.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the njoy Pure Wand
Stainless steel is the best temperature toy there is. It warms in a minute under the tap, chills just as fast, and holds that temperature long enough to enjoy. The Pure Wand also has a smart curve, a smaller ball on one end and a bigger one on the other, so it does double duty for G-spot and prostate play. It is $150 at SheVibe, with 4.9 out of 5 from 24 owners there.
Why add a glass toy too
Glass changes temperature a little more gently than steel and feels lighter in the hand, so it is a nice contrast and an easier start for anyone new to firm toys. The Icicles No. 5 is a classic: hand-blown, about seven inches, with a ridged texture that feels lovely warm. It is $38 at SheVibe.
Want to spend a little less?
Swap in the njoy Fun Wand ($110). It is the same polished steel in a slimmer, more playful shape, a little easier for a first steel toy. The setup becomes $185.99.
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How the night goes
Light the candle first and let it melt while you set two bowls on the nightstand, one with warm water and one with cool water and a few ice cubes. Start with a slow massage, pouring the warm oil onto your partner's back. Then dip the steel wand in the cool bowl and trace it along the same skin. Go back and forth, warm then cool, and watch what makes them gasp. Save the toys for later in the night, warmed and with plenty of H2O.
A few easy safety tips
Use warm tap water, never boiling, and cool water with ice, never the freezer. Test every toy on your inner wrist before it goes anywhere sensitive. Do not move glass straight from very hot to very cold, and retire any glass toy with a chip. Let the candle melt for a few minutes, blow it out, and test a drop on your wrist before you pour. The candle oil is for skin, not for toys or internal play.
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FAQ
Common questions
- What do I need for temperature play?
- This setup comes to $225.99: the njoy Pure Wand, the Icicles No. 5 glass dildo, a Kama Sutra Ignite massage candle and Sliquid H2O.
- How do I warm or chill a steel or glass toy?
- Set it in a bowl of warm tap water or cool water with ice for a few minutes, then test it on your wrist. Never use boiling water or the freezer.
- Which holds temperature longer, steel or glass?
- Steel. It changes temperature faster and holds it longer. Glass is gentler and a little lighter.
- Which lube works with steel and glass toys?
- Any good lube does. A water-based one like Sliquid H2O is the easiest to clean up.
- Is there a cheaper version of this setup?
- Yes. Swap in the njoy Fun Wand ($110) and the total drops to $185.99.
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