First times
How to put on a strap-on harness
SpareParts Joque Cover leads our put on a strap-on harness ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
Strapping on for the first time feels a little silly for about a minute. Then it feels powerful.
Our No. 1: SpareParts Joque Cover
Quick picks
Best overallNo. 1 ↓
SpareParts Joque Cover
Shop $148 at Pleasure Chestships free
Runner-upNo. 2 ↓
Tantus Silk Small
Budget pickNo. 4 ↓
Sportsheets Dual Desires
$36 to $36.99
Shop $36 at SheVibe
At a glance
Compare the top 7
- 1
SpareParts Joque Cover$148from 11 reviews$148 → - 2
Tantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 → - 3
Sportsheets Plush Strap On$45Too new to rate$45 → - 4
Sportsheets Dual Desires$36 to $36.99Too new to rate$36 → - 5
Sliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 6
Sliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 → - 7
Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz$15.99Too new to rate$15.99 →
The ranking
Named straps to practice the put-on
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · SparePartsPhoto at the top ↑
SpareParts Joque Cover
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Jockey. Leg holes. Cover. The put-on if Phoenix already felt like webbing.
Cons
- Dildo not included. Measure the neck
- You are paying clothing money for straps
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Joque.
No. 2 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
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Slim flare through the O-ring. First shaft. Tug-test before anyone moves.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Slim. That's the point
- Water-based lube only
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Silk.
No. 3 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Plush Strap On
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Softer straps. Same put-on. The first night if Phoenix already felt like hardware.
Cons
- Dildo not included
- Plush holds lint. Wash it
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Plush.
No. 4 · Sportsheets
Sportsheets Dual Desires
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Simple straps. Clear O-ring. Fewer buckles. The first harness if Joque felt like homework and Breathable still looked like a project.
Cons
- Not all-day clothing. That's Joque
- Dildo not included
Why it ranks: Who it's for: night one straps, under forty, no drama.
No. 5 · Sliquid
Sliquid Sassy
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Pour after it is on. Not before the ring fight.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Sassy.
No. 6 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
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If Sassy already felt like paste.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-H2O.
No. 7 · Sliquid
Sliquid Shine 8.5 oz
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Rinse straps and shaft after.
Cons
- Tea tree is a smell. Patch a wrist if oils bother you
- Soap and water still count. This is not magic
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-cleaner.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Start with a smaller, softer dildo, cinch the harness tighter than feels necessary, and keep lube within reach. Confidence comes fast. Try it on alone in front of a mirror first. It's how you find the fit that makes you feel hot, and you will feel hot.
If you're shopping, start with SpareParts Joque Cover. It looks and feels like a pair of soft boxer briefs, and the O-ring holds the dildo steady while you move.
Before you buy
Buying guide
The one that stays put
SpareParts Joque Cover. Underwear-soft, machine washable and snug enough that you forget it's there, until you really don't. Wearing it solo for a minute takes the nerves out. Walk around, get used to the weight, grin a little.
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- How do you put on a strap-on?
- Step in. Leg straps. Dildo through the ring from the inside. Tug-test. How to use a strap-on.
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