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How to use a suction cup dildo
Tantus Silk Medium leads our use a suction cup dildo ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
Using a clit sucker is less about technique and more about letting go. Find the seal, stop pushing, and it takes it from there.
Our No. 1: Tantus Silk Medium
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Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · TantusPhoto at the top ↑
Tantus Silk Medium
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The middle Silk. Same hole. Same cup. The how-to after Small felt like a finger.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Firm. If you wanted squish, that's Vixen
- Water-based lube
Why it ranks: How-to that already tried slim.

No. 2 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
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Slim platinum. Flared. Add the cup. The how-to shaft if Medium looks like a dare.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Slim. That's the point
- Water-based lube only
Why it ranks: How-to-suction should start slim.

No. 3 · Tantus
Tantus Suction Cup Accessory
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Named cup. Locks onto a Tantus or Vixen hole. Tile or glass. The how-to if you typed suction and meant a wall, not a jelly stalk.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
Cons
- It needs a compatible base. A random marketplace dildo will not click
- Suction wants tile, not a rumpled sheet
Why it ranks: How-to-suction wants the accessory people actually finish.

No. 4 · Velvet Thruster
Velvet Thruster VC100
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Sibling of VL100. Same stroke idea, different clit pad. Buy it if the VL photo already looked wrong for your anatomy.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Don't buy both on a guess. Pick the arm from the photo
- Same noise warning as VL100
Why it ranks: It does the in-and-out for you, so your hands are free for everything else.

No. 5 · Liberator
Liberator Wing
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A foam hole. Holds a toy. Not a suction cup. The how-to fork if you wanted hands back on a bed, not a shower wall.
Cons
- Bring the toy. The pillow does not vibrate on its own
- Longer than a Jaz. Measure the closet
Why it ranks: Mount search leaks into suction how-to.

No. 6 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
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Water-based. Tile is not slick. A dry cup night is how people decide hands-free was a lie.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: Suction how-to without a bottle is the usual fail.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Start on the lowest setting and just hold it there. Don't press. The magic is in the seal, not the pressure. Solo, it's the lazy Sunday orgasm. Lie back, hold it still, and you can be done in minutes if you want to be.
If you're shopping, start with Sliquid H2O. It's thin, silky and totally unscented, and it plays nicely with every silicone toy in your drawer.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Tile, not sheets
Dust the wall. Best suction cup dildos. Best shower sex toys if the stall is the night.
Cup plus slim
Tantus accessory. Silk Small. How to choose a dildo. How to use a dildo.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
Don't buy jelly because the photo had a cup
Best hands-free dildos if you wanted a mount. How to use a thrusting sex toy if you wanted a piston.
FAQ
Common questions
- How do you use a suction cup dildo?
- Clean tile or glass. Named cup on a compatible base. Slim shaft. More lube than you think. How to choose a dildo if you have not named a girth.
- Why won't it stick?
- Sheets. Dust. A jelly base. The accessory wants a hole it was built for. Best suction cup dildos.
- Do I need a motor?
- No. Mini Teddy if you wanted a piston. How to use a thrusting sex toy. Loud.
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