First times
How to use an anal training kit
b-Vibe Snug Plug 1 leads our use an anal training kit ranking. Re-checked weekly.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
The verdict
Anal toys reward patience. Go slow, use a lot of lube and let your body say when it's ready for more.
Our No. 1: b-Vibe Snug Plug 1
Quick picks
At a glance
Compare the top 7
- 1
b-Vibe Snug Plug 1$45Too new to rate$45 → - 2
Tantus Ryder$32Too new to rate$32 → - 3
b-Vibe Novice Plug$110 to $123.95Too new to rate$110 → - 4
Tantus Silk Small$31.99Too new to rate$31.99 → - 5
b-Vibe Snug Plug 2$48Too new to rate$48 → - 6
b-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads$120Too new to rate$120 → - 7
Sliquid Sassy$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 →
The ranking
Named first sizes and a bottle
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · b-VibePhoto at the top ↑
b-Vibe Snug Plug 1
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Weighted stay. The how-to if Bootie already felt like nothing.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
Cons
- Small. You may outgrow it in a month
- Still a plug. Lube. Flared base. Don't skip either
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Snug 1.
No. 2 · Tantus
Tantus Ryder
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
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Platinum silicone. Flared base. Formula. Firmer than a Snug. No weight pellets. The Tantus plug if you already trust their silicone.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
Cons
- Firmer than b-Vibe. That's the silicone, not a defect
- Water-based lube
Why it ranks: People who already buy Tantus look up Ryder before they buy a weighted plug.
No. 3 · b-Vibe
b-Vibe Novice Plug
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Small vibrating first plug. Soft silicone. The name is the pitch. For people who want a motor on night one and a size that does not pick a fight.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
Cons
- Beginner size. The motor will not save a bad angle
- If you wanted weight and no buzz, that's Snug 1
Why it ranks: A small first plug with a remote-controlled motor.
No. 4 · Tantus
Tantus Silk Small
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A slim shaft after a plug already stayed. Flared. Still gel.
Pros
- Platinum-cure silicone
- Flared base
Cons
- Slim. That's the point
- Water-based lube only
Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Silk.
No. 5 · b-Vibe
b-Vibe Snug Plug 2
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The step. Do not start here.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
Cons
- Weight is the product. If you wanted a motor, that's Ditto+ or Plug-ilicious
- Start at 1 if 2 looks like a dare
Why it ranks: How-to size-jump.
No. 6 · b-Vibe
b-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Three tapered beads. Two motors. Remote. A handle you keep outside. Start with the small bead. You do not have to bury all three.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Splashproof, not a bath toy
- If you wanted a silent plug, wrong aisle
Why it ranks: Three silicone beads that step up in size, with a remote-controlled motor.
No. 7 · Sliquid
Sliquid Sassy
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Thick gel. No numbing. The how-to bottle. A dry plug night is how people quit.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: How-to-training without Sassy is the usual fail.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Lube the toy and yourself, breathe out as it goes in, and go slow. Thick water-based lube is your best friend. Alone, wear it for a while before you even start touching yourself. Anticipation does a lot.
If you're shopping, start with Sliquid Sassy. It's thick and cushiony, so it stays put where you need it most. Great for anal, great for long nights.
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Buying guide
The one to start with
b-Vibe Snug Plug 1. It sits snug and heavy, so every move you make nudges it just a little. Solo, slip it in and use your favorite vibe on the front. The combination is ridiculous.
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