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How to use a wand during sex

Magic Wand Rechargeable leads our use a wand during sex ranking. Real products still sold in the US, re-checked weekly.

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The verdict

A wand is all rumble. You don't need to do much besides hold it where it feels good and breathe.

Our No. 1: Magic Wand Rechargeable

Quick picks

  1. Best overallNo. 1 ↓

    Magic Wand Rechargeable

    $149.99 to $160.95

    Shop $149.99 at SheVibe

    ships free

  2. Runner-upNo. 2 ↓

    Magic Wand Mini

    $95 to $102.50

    Shop $95 at SheVibe

    ships free

  3. Budget pickNo. 3 ↓

    Magic Wand Original

    $80.50 to $89.99

    Shop $89.99 at SheVibe

    ships free

At a glance

Compare the top 8

  1. 1Magic Wand RechargeableMagic Wand Rechargeable$149.99 to $160.95from 17 reviews$149.99 →
  2. 2Magic Wand MiniMagic Wand Mini$95 to $102.50Too new to rate$95 →
  3. 3Magic Wand OriginalMagic Wand Original$80.50 to $89.99Too new to rate$89.99 →
  4. 4We-Vibe Touch XWe-Vibe Touch X$87.20 to $109from 193 reviews$109 →
  5. 5We-Vibe Wand 2We-Vibe Wand 2$135.20 to $169Too new to rate$169 →
  6. 6Le Wand RechargeableLe Wand Rechargeable$150Too new to rate$150 →
  7. 7We-Vibe Melt 2We-Vibe Melt 2$132 to $159from 60 reviews$159 →
  8. 8Sliquid H2OSliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 →

The ranking

Named handles to start low

Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.

How we rank

No. 1 · Vibratex / Magic WandPhoto at the top ↑

Magic Wand Rechargeable

from 17 reviews$149.99 to $160.95
Shop $149.99 at SheVibelower price · ships freeShop $160.95 at Pleasure Chestships free

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Full rumble. The how-to if you already know that drone and someone else can hold the handle.

Pros

  • Silicone head and neck
  • Rechargeable, or wall plug

Cons

  • Full size. Heavy. Loud on high. Not waterproof
  • Broad head. Skip it if you only want a pinpoint

Why it ranks: How-to leak into the full wand. Wrist. Hallway.

Official Magic Wand Mini. Compact white wand on a studio background.
Official Magic Wand Mini. Compact white wand on a studio background.
No. 2

No. 2 · Vibratex / Magic Wand

Magic Wand Mini

Too new to rate$95 to $102.50
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A handle you can pass. Lowest rumble. The how-to wand during sex. A cloth if you want.

Pros

  • Silicone head
  • Rechargeable handle

Cons

  • Not the same brute force as the full-size
  • Still louder than air-pulse

Why it ranks: How-to-wand-during-sex names Mini. Start low.

Official Magic Wand Original HV-260. White head, blue neck, corded handle.
Official Magic Wand Original HV-260. White head, blue neck, corded handle.
No. 3

No. 3 · Vibratex / Magic Wand

Magic Wand Original

Too new to rate$80.50 to $89.99
Shop $89.99 at SheVibeships freeShop $80.50 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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Cord. Outlet. The how-to fail during sex unless the bed is next to the wall on purpose.

Cons

  • Tied to an outlet. Plan the cord
  • Not waterproof. Loud. The head is not silicone

Why it ranks: Original is furniture. Sex fit drops.

Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
Official We-Vibe Touch X. Palm-sized lay-on vibe on white.
No. 4

No. 4 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Touch X

from 193 reviews$87.20 to $109
Shop $109 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $109 at SheVibeships freeShop $87.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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Not a wand. A palm you pass. On the how-to so wand-during-sex search that wanted something smaller can leave.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Someone has to hold it
  • Not a during-sex wearable

Why it ranks: Touch X is the no-handle fork.

Official We-Vibe Wand 2. Compact wand on white.
Official We-Vibe Wand 2. Compact wand on white.
No. 5

No. 5 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Wand 2

Too new to rate$135.20 to $169
Shop $169 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $169 at SheVibeships freeShop $135.20 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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Softer handle. App optional. The how-to if Mini already felt like a brick and you wanted We-Vibe manners.

Pros

  • Silicone head
  • Rechargeable handle

Cons

  • You pay We-Vibe money for less brute force than a Magic Wand
  • App is extra. The buttons work

Why it ranks: How-to-plus-Wand 2.

Le Wand Rechargeable wand massager in pearl white with a rose-gold collar, on white.
Le Wand Rechargeable wand massager in pearl white with a rose-gold collar, on white.
No. 6

No. 6 · Le Wand

Le Wand Rechargeable

Too new to rate$150
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A pearl-white wand with a soft silicone head and a deep, rolling rumble that sinks in instead of skittering across the surface. Ten speeds, twenty patterns, a travel lock, and hours of play on one charge. Press it flat, breathe out, and let it take its time.

Pros

  • Rechargeable

Cons

  • Not waterproof. Keep it out of the bath
  • Full-size and weighty. Not a purse toy

Why it ranks: Owners keep saying how rumbly it is for a cordless wand and how solid it feels in the hand. SheVibe's few reviews average 4.7. The fair knock: it can't go in the water, and some of the price is the finish.

Official We-Vibe Melt 2. Air-pulse stimulator on white.
Official We-Vibe Melt 2. Air-pulse stimulator on white.
No. 7

No. 7 · We-Vibe

We-Vibe Melt 2

from 60 reviews$132 to $159
Shop $159 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% offShop $159 at SheVibeships freeShop $132 at Pleasure Chestlower price · ships free

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A seal you pass. Hover. The how-to if wand rumble already felt like too much during sex.

Pros

  • Body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • IPX7 waterproof

Cons

  • Hands. It does not stay
  • Seal toys hate thrusting

Why it ranks: How-to fork into Melt.

Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
Sliquid H2O by Sliquid.
No. 8

No. 8 · Sliquid

Sliquid H2O

from 16 reviews$13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibe

Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.

Ships discreetly from SheVibe

A wand head still wants a drop. Same cart.

Cons

  • It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
  • Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube

Why it ranks: How-to-wand-during-sex without H2O is a scrape.

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)

Start on the lowest setting through underwear. The full-power rumble is a lot, in the best way. Solo, start through fabric on low. When you're ready, go direct and hold on to something.

The one we'd practice with is Magic Wand Rechargeable. The classic, minus the cord. That deep, thumping rumble goes right through you.

Want the wedge and attachment too? See the Magic Wand setup Want a fast weeknight kit built around a wand? See the Couples quickie setup Want the positions laid out one by one? See the Best positions for using a wand vibrator together

Before you buy

Buying guide

What it feels like

Magic Wand Rechargeable. Press it against your underwear on low and try not to squirm. You'll fail. With a partner, press it between you during sex. Or tie them down and make them wait for it.

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FAQ

Common questions

How do you use a wand with a partner?
Someone holds the handle. Lowest mode. A cloth if you want. How to use a wand vibrator.
Mini or full size?
Mini if a wrist already voted. Best staycation sex toys.
Too much?
Best first external vibrator. How to use air-pulse during sex.

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