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Splurge Solo Setup for Him: Arcwave Ion 2, Lovense Edge 2, Lube and Toy Cleaner
You have done the basic sleeve. This is the upgrade: a hands-free stroker that works with air, and a prostate toy that adds a whole second kind of pleasure.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
Pair the Arcwave Ion 2 hands-free air stroker ($179) with the Lovense Edge 2 prostate massager ($99), plus Sliquid Sassy ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99): $301.98 for the whole setup.
- The hands-free stroker: Arcwave Ion 2 (No. 1) Shop $179 →
- The prostate massager: Lovense Edge 2 (No. 2) Shop $119 →
- The lube: Sliquid Sassy (No. 3) Shop $13.99 →
- The cleaner: Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner (No. 4) Shop $9.99 →
The verdict
Pair the Arcwave Ion 2 ($179), a hands-free stroker that uses air pulses instead of a sleeve, with the Lovense Edge 2 ($99), a vibrating prostate massager. Add Sliquid Sassy ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99) and the whole setup is $301.98.
- Up front: Arcwave Ion 2, focused air pulses that do the work while you lie back, $179.
- Inside: Lovense Edge 2, an adjustable prostate massager with two motors and app control, $99.
- The rest: thick water-based Sliquid Sassy for $13.99 and a $9.99 cleaner spray.
Quick picks
The hands-free strokerNo. 1 ↓
Arcwave Ion 2
The prostate massagerNo. 2 ↓
Lovense Edge 2
The lubeNo. 3 ↓
Sliquid Sassy
Thick lube, $13.99
Shop $13.99 at SheVibeThe cleanerNo. 4 ↓
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Toy cleaner, $9.99
Shop $9.99 at SheVibe
Quick answers
- What is the best splurge solo setup for him?
- Pair the Arcwave Ion 2 hands-free air stroker ($179) with the Lovense Edge 2 prostate massager ($99), plus Sliquid Sassy ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99): $301.98 for the whole setup.
- Where can I buy the Arcwave Ion 2?
- We link to Intimatify, SheVibe and Pleasure Chest. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 5
- 1
Arcwave Ion 2The hands-free stroker$179from 19 reviews$179 → - 2
Lovense Edge 2The prostate massager$99 to $142.95Too new to rate$119 → - 3
Sliquid SassyThe lube$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 4
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy CleanerThe cleaner$9.99Too new to rate$9.99 → - 5
Aneros Helix Syn Trident$69.95 to $73.95Too new to rate$69.95 →
The ranking
The splurge solo setup for him, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · ArcwavePhoto at the top ↑
The hands-free stroker
Arcwave Ion 2
Hands-free air stroker, $179
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Not a sleeve. Focused air pulses do the work while you barely move.
Pros
- Hands-free: no stroking needed
- Silicone contact surface
- Feels like nothing else on this list
Cons
- This is not a Fleshlight. Don't buy it expecting a stroke
- Cleanup is still a project. Read their sheet
Why it ranks: The centerpiece. Lie back and let focused pulses do the work.
No. 2 · Lovense
The prostate massager
Lovense Edge 2
Prostate massager, $99
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
An adjustable dual-motor prostate massager that hits the P-spot and perineum at once, with app control for solo, public or long-distance play. IPX7 waterproof.
Pros
- Adjustable angle for a custom fit
- Inside and outside at once
- Play together from anywhere
Cons
- App only, no remote
- Firmer than the Aneros
Why it ranks: The second sensation. Adjustable, two motors, app control.
No. 3 · Sliquid
The lube
Sliquid Sassy
Thick lube, $13.99
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Same clean Sliquid formula, thicker. Gel that stays put. The one people grab for anal or for a night that needs padding, not a thin slick.
Cons
- Too thick for some vaginal nights. That's why H2O exists
- Still water-based. It can dry if you wait too long
Why it ranks: The glide. Thick, water-based and safe with both toys.
No. 4 · Doc Johnson
The cleaner
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Toy cleaner, $9.99
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An antibacterial spray for after. Spritz, rinse, air dry, done.
Cons
- Rinse after spraying
- Soap and warm water work too
Why it ranks: The after. A quick antibacterial spray for both toys.
No. 5 · Aneros
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
Hands-free prostate toy, $69.95
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The hands-free Aneros people mean. Soft silicone over a firm core. Perineum tab. You move it with muscle, not a remote. No vibration unless you buy the V.
Pros
- Silicone coating
Cons
- Hands-free takes practice. Night one can feel like nothing
- No motor. If you wanted buzz, that's Helix Syn V or Hugo 2
Why it ranks: The lower-cost swap. Hands-free prostate play with no motor.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Most solo setups for men stop at a sleeve and a bottle of lube. This one goes further. The Arcwave Ion 2 does not stroke at all: a small chamber sends focused air pulses to the most sensitive spot just under the head, so you can lie back and let it work. The Lovense Edge 2 adds prostate play, with one motor inside and one on the perineum, and the two together are a very different night from anything a sleeve can give you.
Here is the whole setup, each piece in stock at the price shown, plus an Aneros Helix Syn Trident swap that saves $29.05.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the Arcwave Ion 2
The Ion 2 uses what Arcwave calls Pleasure Air: pulses of air aimed at the frenulum, the spot under the head. Owners split on it. Many call it the best toy they own, and a few never get used to the feel, and thicker guys can find it snug. Go in expecting something new rather than a better Fleshlight and you will get the most out of it. It is $179 at Intimatify today.
Why the Lovense Edge 2
The Edge 2 has a tapered insertable head with one motor against the prostate and a second arm that rests on the perineum. The angle between them adjusts, so it fits a range of bodies. It runs from the Lovense Remote app, which means you can also hand control to a partner, near or far. It is waterproof, and it is $99 at SheVibe today.
Want to spend a little less?
Swap the Edge 2 for the Aneros Helix Syn Trident ($69.95). It has no motor: you move it with your own muscles, which takes a few nights to learn but has a devoted following. The setup becomes $272.93.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
How the night goes
Give yourself time; this is not a five-minute toy. Start with the Edge 2: plenty of Sassy, go slowly, and let your body relax before you turn the motors on. Once you are comfortable, set it to a low steady pattern and bring in the Ion 2. Start the Ion at a low level too and move it a little until the pulses land just right. Then let both toys do the work and see how long you can stretch it out.
After
Clean the Ion 2 the way Arcwave's sheet shows, with warm water and mild soap, and let it dry fully before you put it away. Wash the Edge 2 the same way or give it a spritz of cleaner, then charge both.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What is the best splurge solo setup for men?
- This one comes to $301.98: the Arcwave Ion 2 hands-free air stroker, the Lovense Edge 2 prostate massager, Sliquid Sassy and a toy cleaner.
- Is the Arcwave Ion 2 a stroker?
- Not in the usual sense. It uses focused air pulses on the most sensitive spot under the head instead of a sleeve you move up and down.
- Can you use the Lovense Edge 2 and Arcwave Ion 2 together?
- Yes. Set the Edge 2 to a steady pattern first, then add the Ion 2. Many people find the combination the highlight of the night.
- Which lube works with these toys?
- Use a water-based lube like Sliquid Sassy. Silicone lube can damage silicone toys.
- Is there a cheaper version of this setup?
- Yes. Trade the Edge 2 for the motor-free Aneros Helix Syn Trident ($69.95) and the total drops to $272.93.
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