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Is the Lovense Gravity worth it?
Real thrusting, a buzzing tip and someone else on the app. Here's when Gravity earns its price over a cheaper remote thruster.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
The Lovense Gravity is the best app-controlled thrusting dildo for most people: real in-and-out strokes up to 140 a minute, a vibrating tip and up to four hours per charge. Rather hold a remote than a phone? The Overdrive Remote Control Thruster costs less.
- Best with an app: Lovense Gravity (No. 1) Shop $149 →
- Best with a remote: Overdrive Remote Control Thruster (No. 2) Shop $106.50 →
- Best realistic: Fort Troff Piston Thruster (No. 3) Shop $130 →
- Best under $100: Fantasy For Her Personal Sex Machine (No. 4) Shop $99 →
- Best from b-Vibe: b-Vibe Thrusting Dildo Machine (No. 5) Shop $109.99 →
The verdict
Yes, if you want real in-and-out thrusting and a partner on the app, in the room or far away. Gravity does the moving for you, buzzes at the tip and lasts a long evening on one charge. If you'd rather hold a remote than a phone, the Overdrive Remote Thruster costs less.
Our No. 1: Lovense Gravity
- Worth it for real thrusting, a vibrating tip and long-distance app play.
- Up to 140 strokes a minute, 1.18 in. stroke, up to 4 hrs per charge.
- Prefer a remote to a phone? Overdrive Remote Thruster.
Quick picks
Best with an appNo. 1 ↓
Lovense Gravity
Why it's here: Long-distance play.
Best with a remoteNo. 2 ↓
Overdrive Remote Control Thruster
Why it's here: Separate controls.
Best realisticNo. 3 ↓
Fort Troff Piston Thruster
Best under $100No. 4 ↓
Fantasy For Her Personal Sex Machine
Best from b-VibeNo. 5 ↓
b-Vibe Thrusting Dildo Machine
Quick answers
- What is the best app-controlled thrusting dildo?
- The Lovense Gravity is the best app-controlled thrusting dildo for most people: real in-and-out strokes up to 140 a minute, a vibrating tip and up to four hours per charge. Rather hold a remote than a phone? The Overdrive Remote Control Thruster costs less.
- What is a good cheaper app-controlled thrusting dildo?
- The Fantasy For Her Personal Sex Machine (No. 4 on our list, $99 at the last price check) is the pick to grab if you want to spend less than the No. 1.
- Where can I buy the Lovense Gravity?
- We link to SheVibe. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 6
- 1
Lovense GravityBest with an app$149Too new to rate$149 → - 2
Overdrive Remote Control ThrusterBest with a remote$106.50 to $117.95Too new to rate$106.50 → - 3
Fort Troff Piston ThrusterBest realistic$130 to $149.95Too new to rate$130 → - 4
Fantasy For Her Personal Sex MachineBest under $100$99Too new to rate$99 → - 5
b-Vibe Thrusting Dildo MachineBest from b-Vibe$109.99Too new to rate$109.99 → - 6
Lovense Mini Sex MachineA frame, not handheld$399from 43 reviews$399 →
Side by side
Gravity at a glance
From the Lovense Gravity listing at SheVibe, checked October 21, 2026.
| Spec | Gravity |
|---|---|
| Type | Thrusting, vibrating dildo |
| Thrusting | Up to 140 strokes a minute, 1.18 in. stroke |
| Vibration | Motor in the tip |
| Size | 5.12 in. insertable, 1.46 in. at the widest |
| Control | Lovense app, close range or long distance |
| Run / charge | Up to 4 hrs / 120 min |
| Water | IPX6 water-resistant |
| Material | Body-safe silicone over stainless steel |
The ranking
Gravity and the thrusters it's up against, ranked
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · LovensePhoto at the top ↑
Best with an app
Lovense Gravity
Thrusts, buzzes, goes long distance
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Lovense's thrusting dildo. The shaft slides in and out on its own, the tip vibrates, and someone you trust can take over from their phone. Up to four hours per charge.
Pros
- Thrusts on its own, not just buzz
- App control near or far
- Rechargeable silicone
Cons
- Handheld, not a frame
- App setup before long-distance play
Why it ranks: The toy this page is about. Real thrusting, a buzzing tip, a battery that outlasts most nights and the Lovense app for partner play. Too new for an owner rating here, so it ranks on fit and demand.
No. 2 · CalExotics
Best with a remote
Overdrive Remote Control Thruster
Remote in hand, no phone
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A silicone thruster that lets you mix the thrust and the buzz however you like, hands on or hands off.
Pros
- Separate thrust and vibe controls
- Remote plus suction base
- Rechargeable silicone
Cons
- Suction needs clean tile or glass
- Lock it before it goes in a bag
Why it ranks: Silicone thrusting with a remote and separate thrust and vibration controls, for less than Gravity. The pick if you'd rather leave your phone on the nightstand.
No. 3 · Fort Troff
Best realistic
Fort Troff Piston Thruster
Realistic, with a remote
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A realistic thrusting dildo, balls and all, with a remote.
Pros
- Realistic shape with balls
- Remote control
- Rechargeable silicone
Cons
- Charge it fully before a long session
- Balls catch lint. Wash them
Why it ranks: A lifelike thrusting dildo, balls and all, run by remote. Choose it if a realistic shape matters more to you than an app.
No. 4 · Fantasy For Her
Best under $100
Fantasy For Her Personal Sex Machine
Thrusting under $100
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Real thrust at one of the friendliest prices here.
Pros
- Silicone body
- Rechargeable
- Easy controls
Cons
- Not quiet
- Simpler controls than the Overdrive
Why it ranks: The lowest price on this page for real thrust. Simple controls and a silicone body, so it's an easy way to find out if you love it.
No. 5 · b-Vibe
Best from b-Vibe
b-Vibe Thrusting Dildo Machine
Thrusting from b-Vibe
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A realistic thrusting dildo from b-Vibe, the brand people trust for body-safe silicone.
Pros
- Lifelike shape
- Thrusts on its own
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Wash it after every use
- Handheld, not a frame
Why it ranks: A realistic rechargeable thruster from a brand known for body-safe silicone. Handheld, like Gravity, without the app.
No. 6 · Lovense
A frame, not handheld
Lovense Mini Sex Machine
A frame, not handheld
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
A thrusting frame on folding legs that stands steady on the bed or the floor. When the night's over it tucks away on a closet shelf instead of taking over your bedroom.
Pros
- Takes Vac-U-Lock toys with no adapter
- App control from the next pillow or another city
- Adjustable stroke length
Cons
- Check the Vac-U-Lock fit before you buy an attachment
- Thin walls will hear it. Start on the lowest stroke
Why it ranks: A folding thrusting machine with app control and Vac-U-Lock attachments. More than 40 owners give it 4.8 out of 5. Hands-free for real, at a much higher price.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Most vibrating dildos just buzz. Gravity moves, sliding in and out up to 140 times a minute while a motor in the tip hums against your G-spot. You hold it by the handle, or mount it, and run it from the Lovense app, which also lets a partner take over from across the room or another city.
It's a premium price next to the remote-control thrusters around it. Here's who it's right for, who should buy something simpler, and five toys it's up against, each in stock at the price shown.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Gravity or a remote thruster?
Gravity's edge is the Lovense app: patterns, music sync and long-distance control. Remote thrusters like the Overdrive skip the phone and cost less, with separate thrust and vibration buttons. Playing alone in the same room? A remote is simpler. Playing apart? Gravity.
Gravity or a sex machine?
A machine like the Lovense Mini Sex Machine sits on its own frame and runs hands-free for as long as you like, with a longer stroke. Gravity is smaller, quieter to store and much cheaper. Want to lie back completely? Machine. Want something that fits in a drawer? Gravity.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
First time with a thruster
Start with plenty of water-based lube and the slowest speed, with only the tip inside. Let it find its rhythm before you go deeper. The 5.12-inch insertable length suits most people, and you can always hold it shallower.
FAQ
Common questions
- Does Lovense Gravity really thrust?
- Yes. The shaft travels about 1.18 inches per stroke at the speed you pick in the app, and the tip vibrates on its own motor.
- Does Gravity come with a suction cup?
- The listing describes suction-cup play, but its box contents don't list a cup, so check the store page before planning hands-free use.
- Is Lovense Gravity waterproof?
- It's IPX6 water-resistant, so it handles splashes and washing but shouldn't go in the bath.
- How long does the battery last?
- Up to four hours of play, with a two-hour charge.
- What lube works with Gravity?
- Water-based. Silicone lube can damage a silicone toy's surface.
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