Together
Make-Up Sex Night Setup: Womanizer Premium 2, We-Vibe Pivot 2, a Massage Candle and Lube
The argument is over, nobody is keeping score, and you both want to feel close again. This is the setup for that night.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
An Earthly Body massage candle ($15.95), the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189), the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ($129) and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $347.94. With the We-Vibe Tango X instead of the Premium 2, $243.94.
- Her first: Womanizer Premium 2 (No. 1) Shop $189 →
- Together: We-Vibe Pivot 2 (No. 2) Shop $129 →
- The reset: 3 in 1 Massage Candle, Kashmir Musk (No. 3) Shop $15.95 →
- The lighter swap: We-Vibe Tango X (No. 5) Shop $85 →
The verdict
For a make-up night, start slow and end close: an Earthly Body 3 in 1 massage candle ($15.95) to reconnect, the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189) so she gets hers first, the We-Vibe Pivot 2 vibrating ring ($129) for sex that feels good for both of you and Sliquid H2O ($13.99). The whole setup is $347.94. With the We-Vibe Tango X ($85) instead of the Premium 2, it is $243.94.
- The reset: Earthly Body massage candle, warm oil and a few quiet minutes, $15.95.
- Her first: Womanizer Premium 2, gentle air pulse that learns her rhythm, $189.
- Together: We-Vibe Pivot 2, a vibrating ring that buzzes for both of you, $129.
- The glide: Sliquid H2O, water-based and safe with silicone toys and condoms, $13.99.
Quick picks
Her firstNo. 1 ↓
Womanizer Premium 2
TogetherNo. 2 ↓
We-Vibe Pivot 2
The resetNo. 3 ↓
3 in 1 Massage Candle, Kashmir Musk
Massage candle, $15.95
Shop $15.95 at Pleasure ChestThe lighter swapNo. 5 ↓
We-Vibe Tango X
Quick answers
- What is the best make-up sex night setup?
- An Earthly Body massage candle ($15.95), the Womanizer Premium 2 ($189), the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ($129) and Sliquid H2O ($13.99): $347.94. With the We-Vibe Tango X instead of the Premium 2, $243.94.
- Where can I buy the Womanizer Premium 2?
- We link to Intimatify, SheVibe and Pleasure Chest. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 5
- 1
Womanizer Premium 2Her first$151.20 to $189from 1027 reviews$189 → - 2
We-Vibe Pivot 2Together$103.20 to $129from 10 reviews$129 → - 3
3 in 1 Massage Candle, Kashmir MuskThe reset$15.95Too new to rate$15.95 → - 4
Sliquid H2O$13.99from 16 reviews$13.99 → - 5
We-Vibe Tango XThe lighter swap$72 to $85from 324 reviews$85 →
The ranking
The make-up sex night setup, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · WomanizerPhoto at the top ↑
Her first
Womanizer Premium 2
Awards 2026 winner: Best Clit SuckerAir pulse toy, $189
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Air-pulse, not buzz. You hover the opening until it seals. Fourteen intensities. Two head sizes in the box because one size is a lie.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone stimulator heads
- Silicone and ABS body
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Angle and seal matter. Fussy if you want to mash it like a vibrator
- Smart Silence waits for skin. Annoying if you like the motor already running
Why it ranks: Her first. Soft suction-style pulses that build slowly.
No. 2 · We-Vibe
Together
We-Vibe Pivot 2
Awards 2026 winner: Best Toy for MenVibrating ring, $129
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A soft, stretchy ring at the base with a motor bump you turn toward your clit. Every time your hips meet, it buzzes right there. They stay harder, you come sooner.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Twenty to thirty minutes on, then off
- Lube the inside of the band first
Why it ranks: Together. Steady vibration while you stay face to face.
No. 3 · Earthly Body
The reset
3 in 1 Massage Candle, Kashmir Musk
Massage candle, $15.95
Ships discreetly from Pleasure Chest
A hemp seed candle that melts a few degrees above body temperature into a warm massage oil. Kashmir Musk blends brandy, magnolia and vanilla musk.
Cons
- Blow it out and let it cool a moment before pouring
- Oil and latex condoms don't mix
Why it ranks: The reset. Candlelight first, a warm rubdown after.
No. 4 · Sliquid
Sliquid H2O
Awards 2026 winner: Best LubeLube, $13.99
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The bottle under every other pick. Glycerin-free. Unscented. Works with silicone toys. You reapply. Buy this before you buy a second toy.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: The lube. Water-based and safe with both toys and condoms.
No. 5 · We-Vibe
The lighter swap
We-Vibe Tango X
Awards 2026 winner: Best BulletBullet, $85
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
Lipstick-size bullet with a motor that is not a joke. Silicone grip. Park it and stay there. Travel lock you will forget about until it will not start in a hotel.
Pros
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Pinpoint. Not a wand. Don't expect broad rumble
- External only
Why it ranks: The lighter swap. A rumbly bullet for a $243.94 cart.
The Bedside list
Good things, delivered discreetly.
Honest markdowns, fresh lists and the toys readers can't stop buying. Only when it's worth your inbox.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Make-up sex has a reputation for being fiery, but the best version is usually slower and sweeter than that. A few minutes of touch with no goal, then a night where both of you are looked after.
This setup does exactly that: warm oil to break the ice, a toy that puts her first and a ring that makes sex feel good for both of you. Every price is the in-stock price at the store each button opens.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why start with a massage candle
After a fight, jumping straight into sex can feel like skipping a step. The Earthly Body candle melts into warm oil, so a back rub becomes the apology without anyone giving a speech. It is $15.95 at Pleasure Chest. Keep the oil away from latex condoms.
Why the Womanizer Premium 2
The Premium 2 uses gentle air pulses around the clit and has an autopilot mode that changes the rhythm on its own. Owners on womanizer.com rate it 4.4 out of 5 across more than 1,000 reviews. It is $189 at Intimatify and $179 at SheVibe.
Why the We-Vibe Pivot 2
The Pivot 2 is a soft, stretchy ring with a motor that sits against her during sex. He gets a firmer, longer feel, she gets steady vibration, and nobody has to hold anything. Owners on we-vibe.com rate it 4.2 out of 5. It is $129 at Intimatify and SheVibe.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
How the night goes
Light the candle and talk for a few minutes, no rehashing. When the oil has pooled, blow it out and give each other a slow back rub. Then the Premium 2 for her, on a low setting, with him close. Slide on the Pivot 2 when you are both ready and take your time.
The lighter version
The We-Vibe Tango X ($85) is a small, rumbly bullet that works well for her and can even be held between you during sex. With the Tango X instead of the Premium 2, the setup is $243.94.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What toys are good for make-up sex?
- Something to slow down with, a toy for her and a toy you share. This setup uses an Earthly Body massage candle, the Womanizer Premium 2, the We-Vibe Pivot 2 and Sliquid H2O.
- How much does this setup cost?
- $347.94 for everything, or $243.94 with the We-Vibe Tango X instead of the Womanizer Premium 2.
- Can you use the massage oil with condoms?
- No. Oil breaks down latex. Wipe it off first and use the Sliquid H2O, which is water-based, for sex.
- Is the Pivot 2 comfortable for him?
- It is soft, stretchy silicone with a snug fit. Use a little lube to roll it on and take it off if it ever feels too tight.
Also on the shelf
Related lists
Slow Sex Night Setup: Kama Sutra Ignite, We-Vibe Sync 2 and Sliquid OrganicsNo race to the finish. Just a long massage, a low hum and two people who stopped watching the clock.
Sensual Massage Night Setup: Massage Candle, Magic Wand Rechargeable, Kissable Oil and LubeA massage is the most generous way to start a night, and the easiest way to slow it down. Here is the setup that turns a back rub into the main event.Shop $149.99 at SheVibeships free
Couples Date Night Setup: Wearable Vibe, Wedge, Oils and a BlindfoldSkip the restaurant. Here's everything for a date night in that starts with a massage and ends with a vibrator you both feel.Shop $179 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% off
Anniversary Night Setup: LELO Sila, LELO Tor 3, Massage Candle and BlindfoldAnother year together deserves more than dinner. Here's a full night with a little luxury and a lot of slow.Shop $169 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% off
Is the Womanizer Premium 2 worth it?Fourteen levels of air-pulse, autopilot, and a seal that does the work. Worth it for most people who already know they like clit play.Shop $189 at IntimatifyCode BEDSIDE15: 15% off
Is the We-Vibe Pivot 2 worth it?We-Vibe Pivot 2 leads our is we vibe pivot 2 worth it ranking. Re-checked weekly.Shop $129 at IntimatifyUse code BEDSIDE15: 15% off
Sex toys on sale now · 12 markdowns up to 48% off, prices checked Nov 3