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Remote Control Night Out Setup: We-Vibe Moxie+, We-Vibe Pivot 2, Lube and Toy Cleaner
The best nights out have a secret. She wears it, you hold the remote, and nobody at the next table has a clue why she keeps smiling into her drink.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
She wears the We-Vibe Moxie+ ($139) while you are out and you hold the remote, then the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ring ($129) takes over at home, plus Sliquid H2O ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99): $291.98 for the whole setup.
- The one she wears out: We-Vibe Moxie+ (No. 1) Shop $139 →
- The one for home: We-Vibe Pivot 2 (No. 2) Shop $129 →
- The lube: Sliquid H2O (No. 3) Shop $13.99 →
- The cleaner: Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner (No. 4) Shop $9.99 →
The verdict
She wears the We-Vibe Moxie+ ($139) under her clothes while you are out, and the remote rides in your pocket. Back home, the We-Vibe Pivot 2 vibrating ring ($129) keeps the buzz going during sex. Add Sliquid H2O ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99) and the whole setup is $291.98.
- While you are out: We-Vibe Moxie+, a magnetic panty vibe with a remote and app, $139.
- Back home: We-Vibe Pivot 2, a stretchy ring with a motor that sits on her clit, $129.
- The rest: water-based Sliquid H2O for $13.99 and a $9.99 cleaner spray.
Quick picks
The one she wears outNo. 1 ↓
We-Vibe Moxie+
The one for homeNo. 2 ↓
We-Vibe Pivot 2
The lubeNo. 3 ↓
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Shop $13.99 at SheVibeThe cleanerNo. 4 ↓
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Toy cleaner, $9.99
Shop $9.99 at SheVibe
Quick answers
- What is the best remote control night out setup?
- She wears the We-Vibe Moxie+ ($139) while you are out and you hold the remote, then the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ring ($129) takes over at home, plus Sliquid H2O ($13.99) and a toy cleaner ($9.99): $291.98 for the whole setup.
- Where can I buy the We-Vibe Moxie+?
- We link to Intimatify and SheVibe. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 5
- 1
We-Vibe Moxie+The one she wears out$139 to $149from 201 reviews$139 → - 2
We-Vibe Pivot 2The one for home$129from 10 reviews$129 → - 3
Sliquid H2OThe lube$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 4
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy CleanerThe cleaner$9.99Too new to rate$9.99 → - 5
Lovense Ferri$99 to $142.95Too new to rate$119 →
The ranking
The night out setup, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · We-VibePhoto at the top ↑
The one she wears out
We-Vibe Moxie+
Remote panty vibrator, $139
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A magnet holds it in your underwear, right on your clit. Wear it to dinner with the remote in their pocket, or let them tease you from their phone in another city.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
Cons
- Foreplay toy, not a during-sex toy
- Thin fabric holds the magnet best
Why it ranks: The centerpiece. A magnetic panty vibe with a pocket remote, made for dinner and drinks.
No. 2 · We-Vibe
The one for home
We-Vibe Pivot 2
Vibrating ring, $129
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A soft, stretchy ring at the base with a motor bump you turn toward your clit. Every time your hips meet, it buzzes right there. They stay harder, you come sooner.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable motor
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Twenty to thirty minutes on, then off
- Lube the inside of the band first
Why it ranks: The home stretch. A vibrating ring you both feel during sex.
No. 3 · Sliquid
The lube
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Glycerin-free, unscented water-based lube that is safe with silicone toys.
Cons
- Water-based lube dries; reapply as you go
- For long play in water, choose a silicone lube
Why it ranks: The glide. Water-based and safe with both toys.
No. 4 · Doc Johnson
The cleaner
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Toy cleaner, $9.99
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An antibacterial spray for after. Spritz, rinse, air dry, done.
Cons
- Rinse after spraying
- Soap and warm water work too
Why it ranks: The after. A quick antibacterial spray for both toys.
No. 5 · Lovense
Lovense Ferri
App panty vibrator, $99
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A tiny, powerful magnetic panty vibrator controlled through the Lovense Remote app, with unlimited patterns and a stable connection for public play.
Pros
- Control from anywhere with a signal
- Endless custom patterns
- Tiny enough to forget it's there
Cons
- No physical remote, so the person in charge needs a phone
- Pairs best with lighter underwear
Why it ranks: The lower-cost swap. A tiny magnetic panty vibe run from the Lovense app.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Remote play works best when it is part of a whole evening rather than a gadget you try once. The We-Vibe Moxie+ sits in her underwear with a magnet, right where it counts, and its remote fits in a pocket. Turn it up during the appetizers, back off, and tease your way through the night. By the time you get home, you will both be more than ready, and the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ring keeps that buzz going during sex.
Here is the whole setup, each piece in stock at the price shown, plus a Lovense Ferri swap that saves $40.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the We-Vibe Moxie+
The Moxie+ is a slim silicone vibe that rests on the clit and stays in place with a magnet clipped through her underwear. It comes with a small remote with a good range for the same room or table, and the We-Vibe app takes over for longer distances. It is quiet enough for a busy restaurant, though a silent room will give you away at the top settings. Lighter underwear keeps it snug, so save the thick cotton for another night. It is $139 at Intimatify today.
Why the We-Vibe Pivot 2
Once you are home, the Pivot 2 is a stretchy silicone ring he wears at the base. Its motor rests against her clit during sex, so the teasing from dinner carries right into the main event, and he feels the hum too. It also works with the We-Vibe app, so the remote game can keep going. It is $129 at Intimatify today.
Want to spend a little less?
Swap the Moxie+ for the Lovense Ferri ($99). It is a tiny magnetic panty vibe that runs from the Lovense Remote app instead of a physical remote, so whoever is in charge needs their phone. The setup becomes $251.98.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
How the night goes
Charge both toys the afternoon before. Before you leave, she clips the Moxie+ in place and you test the remote at home so nothing surprises you in public. At dinner, start low and short: a few seconds at a time, then nothing for a while. Let the anticipation do half the work. On the way home, turn it up a little more. Once you are through the door, swap to the Pivot 2, add a little lube, and pick up right where you left off.
Keep it fun for both of you
Agree on a simple signal before you go out, like a hand on the table, that means turn it down right now. Teasing is only fun when she is enjoying it too. And trade places on the next night out: it is a very different thrill on the other side of the remote.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What is the best remote control setup for a night out?
- This one comes to $291.98: the We-Vibe Moxie+ panty vibrator for while you are out, the We-Vibe Pivot 2 ring for home, Sliquid H2O and a toy cleaner.
- Can people hear the We-Vibe Moxie+ in public?
- In a restaurant or bar with normal background noise, the low and middle settings are hard to hear. In a quiet room the highest settings can be noticeable.
- Does the Moxie+ need an app?
- No. The included remote handles everything, and the We-Vibe app is optional for longer range or custom patterns.
- Which lube works with these toys?
- Use a water-based lube like Sliquid H2O. Silicone lube can damage silicone toys.
- Is there a cheaper version of this setup?
- Swap in the Lovense Ferri ($99), which is app controlled. The setup becomes $251.98.
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