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Long-Distance Couples Setup: Lovense Lush 4, Max 2, Lube and Cleaner
Missing each other gets a lot more fun when you can reach across the miles. Here's the whole night for two homes, built around one app.
Reviewed by Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer) · Prices checked · How we rank
Best for most peopleUpdated
Pair the Lovense Lush 4 ($129) for her with the Lovense Max 2 ($115) for him, both on one app from any distance. Add Sliquid H2O and toy cleaner, and the whole setup is $267.98.
- For her: Lovense Lush 4 (No. 1) Shop $129 →
- For him: Lovense Max 2 (No. 2) Shop $115 →
- The lube: Sliquid H2O (No. 3) Shop $13.99 →
- For after: Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner (No. 4) Shop $9.99 →
The verdict
Pair the Lovense Lush 4 ($129) for her with the Lovense Max 2 ($115) for him. Both run on the same Lovense app, so you can play with each other's toys from across the country. Add Sliquid H2O ($13.99) and toy cleaner ($9.99), and the whole setup is $267.98.
- Hers: Lovense Lush 4, a wearable egg vibe your partner controls from anywhere, $129.
- His: Lovense Max 2, an air-squeeze sleeve that pairs with the Lush, $115.
- The extras: Sliquid H2O and toy cleaner, under $24 together.
Quick picks
For herNo. 1 ↓
Lovense Lush 4
For himNo. 2 ↓
Lovense Max 2
The lubeNo. 3 ↓
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Shop $13.99 at SheVibeFor afterNo. 4 ↓
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Spritz and rinse
Shop $9.99 at SheVibe
Quick answers
- What is the best long-distance setup?
- Pair the Lovense Lush 4 ($129) for her with the Lovense Max 2 ($115) for him, both on one app from any distance. Add Sliquid H2O and toy cleaner, and the whole setup is $267.98.
- Where can I buy the Lovense Lush 4?
- We link to SheVibe and Pleasure Chest. Every store gets the same size button on the card, and prices are re-checked when we update the guide.
- How do you rank these?
- By what people actually buy and search for, owner reviews, whether it is in stock, and how well it fits this list. Stores pay us a commission on some links, but that never moves a rank.
At a glance
Compare the top 6
- 1
Lovense Lush 4For her$129 to $139Too new to rate$129 → - 2
Lovense Max 2For him$115 to $134.95from 316 reviews$115 → - 3
Sliquid H2OThe lube$13.99Too new to rate$13.99 → - 4
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy CleanerFor after$9.99Too new to rate$9.99 → - 5
We-Vibe Nova 2$127.20 to $159from 255 reviews$159 → - 6
We-Vibe Sync Lite$79.20 to $99from 136 reviews$99 →
The ranking
The long-distance setup, piece by piece
Ranked by demand, review quality, availability, and fit. Stars are owner review averages from the store or brand site, where there are enough reviews.
No. 1 · LovensePhoto at the top ↑
For her
Lovense Lush 4
Control from anywhere
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An app-controlled egg vibrator with a G-curve that stays in place, up to 7,000 vibrations per minute and fast charging.
Pros
- Internal G-spot buzz
- Stays put while dancing or walking
- Charges quickly between dates
Cons
- Internal wear takes getting used to
- App only, no remote
Why it ranks: The center of the night. A wearable egg vibe that stays in place while your partner plays with the app from anywhere.
No. 2 · Lovense
For him
Lovense Max 2
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
Air pumps squeeze the sleeve in waves while a motor hums. Hand the app to a partner anywhere.
Pros
- Squeezes in waves on its own
- App control near or far
- Removable sleeve
Cons
- The air pump is audible. Not for thin walls
- Squeeze, not stroke. You still move it or it just holds on
Why it ranks: His half. Air-squeeze waves that follows her toy's rhythm in the same app.
No. 3 · Sliquid
The lube
Sliquid H2O
Toy-safe lube
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
The bottle under every other pick. Glycerin-free. Unscented. Works with silicone toys. You reapply. Buy this before you buy a second toy.
Cons
- It dries. Reapply. Keep the bottle in reach
- Not for a long water session. That's silicone lube
Why it ranks: The lube for both toys. Water-based, glycerin-free and safe with silicone.
No. 4 · Doc Johnson
For after
Doc Johnson Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
Spritz and rinse
Free shipping at SheVibe over $68. Tempted to treat yourself? Add a silky lube and it all ships free.
Ships discreetly from SheVibe
An antibacterial spray for after the call. Spritz, rinse, air dry, done.
Cons
- Rinse after spraying
- Soap and warm water work too
Why it ranks: For after. Spritz, rinse and air dry.
No. 5 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Nova 2
G-spot and clit, app on
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
A rabbit whose bendy arm stays on your clit while the shaft works inside. Give them the app and let them drive, from across the bed or across the country.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- IPX7 waterproof
Cons
- Not for wearing during intercourse
- The app is optional and half the fun
Why it ranks: The upgrade for her. A rabbit with G-spot and clit arms with its own app for play across any distance. It won't pair with the Max 2.
No. 6 · We-Vibe
We-Vibe Sync Lite
App control, $99
Ships discreetly from Intimatify
The cheapest way to find out if you both love a vibe worn during sex. Slimmer arm, gentler buzz, and your phone does the remote's job.
Pros
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- App optional
Cons
- No remote in the box
- Softer than Sync 2 or Chorus
Why it ranks: The lighter swap. A gentle wearable with app control for $99, an easy way to try long-distance play.
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Notes from Bedside CSO (Chief Sex Officer)
Long distance doesn't have to mean texting and waiting. With two toys on the same app, one of you can tease the other from a different time zone, while you watch each other's faces on a video call.
Here's the full setup, each piece in stock at the price shown, plus an upgrade if she'd like G-spot and clit together and a lighter swap if you're testing the idea.
Before you buy
Buying guide
Why the Lush 4
It's a soft silicone egg with a tail that stays put and waterproof. Your partner runs it from the Lovense app anywhere with a signal. It's $129 at SheVibe today.
Why the Max 2
It squeezes in waves with air instead of stroking, and it can sync with the Lush so you both feel the same rhythm. 316 Lovense owners rate it 4.6 out of 5. The pump is audible, so mind thin walls.
Want an upgrade or a lighter start?
The We-Vibe Nova 2 ($159) gives her G-spot and clit at once and runs on the We-Vibe app across any distance, though it won't sync with the Max 2. The We-Vibe Sync Lite ($99) is a gentler wearable that works on the same app.
Read this first
Mistakes to avoid
Setting up the call
Pair each toy to its own phone, then send your partner a control link in the Lovense app. Start the video call on a second device or a laptop so the app stays open. Begin low and let whoever holds the controls take it slow.
After
Rinse the Max 2 sleeve and spritz both toys with cleaner. Let them air dry before charging.
Torn between two?
Head-to-head
FAQ
Common questions
- What do I need for a long-distance night?
- A toy for each of you on the same app, a water-based lube and a cleaner. This setup is $267.98 with the Lovense Lush 4, Max 2, Sliquid H2O and toy cleaner.
- Can the Lush 4 and Max 2 sync?
- Yes. Both run in the Lovense app, and the Max 2 can follow the Lush so you feel each other's rhythm.
- Do Lovense toys work across countries?
- Yes. Control runs over the internet, so all you need is a signal on both phones.
- Is the Lush 4 waterproof?
- Yes, it's waterproof and rechargeable. The Max 2 isn't made for water, so keep it on the bed.
- Lovense or We-Vibe for long distance?
- Lovense if you want his and hers toys that sync. We-Vibe if she wants a dual-stim toy like the Nova 2.
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